Saturday, December 19, 2020

AUTOBIOGRAPHY - DICK BERKOWITZ 5/26/2021

Autobiogrphy By Dick Berkowitz
5/26/2021
"STREET PERSON
 FIRST SECTON


                                   This appears in every Memo - See dick-meom.blogspot.com

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                                                              College Photo - 1954

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I penned the following at the encouragement of my only son, Daniel, after a lengthy conversation he and I had earlier this year in Orlando. He thought writing down much of what we discussed, a reflection of my almost 90 years, could be meaningful for my kids, my grandkids, and one day my growing fleet of great grand kids.

His reasoning: it would help them understand the formative experiences that make me tick (tic). The few hours we spent together getting to know one another, in many ways for the first time, I believe enriched our relationship and hope will nurture a deeper closeness between us and all my progeny.

Needless to say,  the emotional world of today is different than the "men don't cry" era of my youth. As for being Lynn's husband, she has had to put up with the "one child syndrome," having parents influenced by the Great Depression; a hint of OCD, a generous sprinkling of ADD tendencies; and being a Jewish teen from Alabama attending Georgia Military Academy, 1946 to 1950.  Mix it all together with therapists who, in my day, always came back to the Oedipus/Freudian complex; and you can begin to appreciate the soup of my DNA.  Fortunately, I had good parentage. And, while it might not always shine through my emotional armor and baggage, I do hope my family members know I love each one of them very much.  

I had the great fortune of having an old fashioned and dedicated (they don't  make them like that any more) "office wife "  Mary Penuel "slaved" for me for 25 years . She was devoted to making my work life easier and pleasant. The problem this created was when I came home, generally with work, I forgot Lynn was not my "office wife."

Mary Penuel

No one is perfect and I never aspired to or claimed that un- achievable mantle, but I have tried to do my best in everything I undertake.... Harder when you are someone overly self-focused and impatient. 

 As I aged, even the very few "chores"I do around the house have become more difficult.  I no longer stand on ladders to replace light bulbs so turning out lights has become a passion . After all, I missed being a "depression baby" by only 4 years,

I love picking weeds and trimming hedges because the results are instantaneous and I love orderliness but physically my leukemia has diminished my stamina. However, I still enjoy washing and waxing the cars. I  was never good in the kitchen. I don’t know how to barbecue or even pour water without spilling so to even matters in the "honey do" department, I take out the garbage and most of the time put dishes in the dishwasher after dinner.

Also, I no longer can read my handwriting so Lynn has to address my letters and this tends to increase tensions regarding evening-up "chore doing" on the home front. Furthermore, I am technologically deficient so I cannot program the TV. I read until able assistance appears.

Lynn complains my infamous memos keep me in my own cocoon and I spend too much time saving the world. I appreciate her viewpoint but believe the world is going to hell anyway and there is little I can do about that so, I submit, she should consider them as entertainment and thus, therapeutic. Besides, I love writing and expressing myself and giving the world and liberals the finger.

Lynn knows I love her and often fail to show it as she richly deserves and wishes. The same for all my family members, so I still have unfinished work. Everyone is a work in progress I guess. 

As I reflect upon my life, I realize, as with most people, I had some bumps along the way, did not believe I knew who I was and how I came to be that person. I took it upon myself, while in law school, to explore and probe because I was not happy and felt I was missing out on a better life.

I  have come to realize a lot of the pain points in my interactions with those I love are the result of misinterpreting them or them misinterpreting me. So often I do, what I believe, is intellectually correct but lack the emotional skills to explain everything I did/do was/is an attempt to protect and prepare my kids for what I believe is the tough world arena. I call it the "tough love" approach. By that you allow children to feel the pain of a stubbed toe and the consequences of their own actions and behaviour, etc. There is always a price to pay even for freedom and there are no free lunches in my cafeteria.

Intellectually, I understand I misinterpreted a lot due to being emotionally shackled. I will always retain scars and have no doubt caused my fair share as well (hopefully not intentionally or spitefully or out of meanness.) I am sure there were times when I failed, even in that department. Because of laziness or because I have reached the point where I am a rock at rest and, at advanced age, my change days are mostly over.

That said, while I remain above ground, I do aspire to being a better father, grandfather, great grandfather and husband and to have/enjoy an even closer relationship with my kids, their spouses, progeny and Lynn.  There still is hope but please don't hold your breath or hold it against me if I fall below your expectations..

That said, I do believe you learn from standing in the other person's shoes.

My one problem, in terms of getting closer, is my dislike of aimless phone conversations. I have a short attention span, am too impatient, hate being interrupted by unexpected calls, and my mind races so I most often know the next sentence/response before it is spoken. Lamentably, conversations must encompass a component of an appealing topic. I refuse to own a cell phone and that drives my family up the wall. I know, I need to overcome this quirk but I am just  not one for idle chit chat. For almost 50 years I made my living from what I call "smiling, dialing and concentrated bottomline calls  and had the great fortune, during my "Street Years," of  interacting with some very bright minds, far brighter than I could ever measure up to so that has created high interest hurdles. I truly believe my own kids and older grandchildren are extremely bright and interesting and I haven't given them the opportunity to talk about their own interests and what motivates them. Admittedly, life and my personality get in the way all too often: Poor but a true self-analysis.



I feel confident they know I love them, am so proud of what they have accomplished and what good citizens they have become. It is wonderful to see how each has flourished in their own way. My emphasis on being generous, a responsible and participating citizen is important because we are blessed to have been born in this country and must pay back. My own generation failed, in my opinion.  We were too busy getting and spending, allowing government to become too large, costly, distant and corrupt. 

I have written many times, we saddled the next generation with our bar tab. For shame!

It is hard to believe our family now numbers 28, not including 8 dogs and soon to become 29. I am sure more will come in time. I only wish my own and Lynn's folks had been around to enjoy the pleasures.

In essence, my life has been better than I deserve and/or anticipated. We have been lucky and blessed to date. If you read this autobiography below, I hope you find it of general interest and perhaps it will cause you to reflect upon your own life and be comforted/challenged by what you discover. As previously oted, I had some bumps and we all have events we wish we could avoid but could not, so we must learn to roll with the punch, so to speak.

All in all, were I to die before I finish typing this sentence, I can truly say I would die happy and fulfilled, also, a bit surprised since I just returned from my annual physical.

Finally, a word about friends.  One cannot go through life without them and, here again, I am blessed not only because I have many but I have such a wholesome variety and they have truly enriched my life.  A deceased family friend thought the greatest gift you could receive and/or give someone was a "book," and there is much to be said for that because I love to read, but to be/have a friend is, in my humble opinion, also a great gift.

I do believe it is never too late unless you allow it to become so.

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"STREET PERSON_ A Kaleidoscope Autobiography"

THE EARLY YEARS - 1933 -1946:

I was born in Birmingham, Alabama, May 16, 1933 to Estelle  (Reiss) and Abe Berkowitz.  My mother was a housewife, my father an attorney. My mother did not attend college, my father graduated from The University of Alabama in Tuscaloosa with a double degree - a BS and LLB. I was told, long after I was born, my mother was unable to have other children so I grew up "sans" siblings.

We lived in apartments until I was 6 and then moved to our only house which was a block down the street from The Highland Public Golf Course.  It was a middle class neighborhood and we were the second Jewish family within blocks. The house was built by Julian Boehm, cost $6750, was set atop a steep hill, had two bedrooms and one bath downstairs, a third bedroom with bath upstairs including a den and attic.

I began a Victory Garden during World War 2 and we lived off the produce for an entire year. Also in the backyard was an unattached, unheated shed with a toilet and an unconnected one car garage. The shed housed some garden equipment, a lawnmower and was a place where Joe, our black yardman, changed clothes, used the bathroom and where our black maid(s) also used the bathroom. 

As my father's income improved we had a maid, I believe her name was Daisy, and she came 4 days a week, was off on Thursday and was paid, I believe, $20.

She cleaned, cooked sometimes, was treated well by standards of those days and was devoted. My father never drove a car and we always owned a Buick bought from Drennen Motors until I convinced my mother to buy a Mercedes.  It was her last car, had 39,000 miles on it, was 15 years old and you could have a lobotomy in the back seat because it was cleaner/safer than a hospital. She made sure, when she parked in the garage, it was on two slats so its "feet" would not get cold. My father had many  interests but only 5 passions /loves: family, his law practice and partners, justice for all, Birmingham and Israel.


                             
                                                                 Abe Berkowitz

My mother had three men in her life: her father, Alex, who died at 60 from a heart attack in Tuscaloosa shortly after he opened a shoe store, my father and me. My mother was intensely protective of my father and no one ever dared say anything bad about him or she would cut off all contact. She was a fabulous baker/cook, a gifted dress maker, a superb ironer and had a marvelous voice - actually the equal of Streisand but never sang in public after she was a teen.  Her mother was a pianist, her father a shoe salesman and a fabulous baritone opera singer. Caruso would have been jealous. Me, who she had, I believe, split loyalties.


                                                                 My mother and father

My father was absorbed in his legal practice. Frankly, I felt we had little interaction until I was 13 and old enough to drive a car. During the war, Alabama allowed you to get a driver's license, at 13. I often drove my father around and I got a chance to know him a bit. 

During the war years he was our neighborhood air raid warden and let me walk with him at night making sure everyone had dimmed their lights. Beyond that, he would come home, take off his shoes, put on slippers and continue his law/case reading until dinner around 6.

On occasion, I would make a fourth when he played golf with two other competing lawyer friends, Jimmy Permutt and Morris Sirote. However, the conversation was mostly about law matters so I was on my own, so to speak.  I was self-taught, never great but had potential and was on my prep school's golf team and earned a letter but that was much later in 1949. While growing up, most of my friends lived in the neighborhood. I was the youngest, the smallest, wiry, persistent, fast and, when we played touch football, I was a solid end type and could also throw a mean spiral quite a distance.

I walked several blocks to a neighborhood grade school (Avondale), had some great old fashioned teachers who expected good behaviour and, in one grade, I was asked to report the morning news at the beginning of class. At playground, we shot marbles, engaged in the usual activities and, on occasion, I was picked on because the school drew from a, more or less, tough neighborhood where there were few Jews so I became the object of some bullies. I tried to hold my own, best as I could, and never was really in physical danger. In most of my classes there were one or two other Jews, always girls who I knew, but they lived in a somewhat fancier neighborhood abutting Avondale.

In the early  40's, Birmingham was not a hot bed of Civil unrest but into the later 40's, as I was preparing to go to Ramsay High School, my father decided I should go to Military School.  It came totally out of the blue and I had no say in the matter. The reason he gave was he did not want me to experience the ugliness and possible physical danger he foresaw due to de-segregation. I believe the real reason was he did not want me to become a "Portnoy" and thought I needed toughening. In retrospect he was right.

THE GEORGIA MILITARY ACADEMY YEARS - 1946 - 1950

GMA became one of the best experiences in my lucky life.

I entered Georgia Military Academy in College Park, Georgia in 1946. GMA was near the Atlanta airport , some 10 miles from downtown  Atlanta.  It was and remains  home of  Chick-Fil-A which was located in "The Dwarf House." My four years in Military School was the best thing that ever happened to me at that time. But with good can also come bad. More later.

After a rough first year of mild hazing, I got a solid education, acquired plenty of self-discipline and because I worked out with weights, under the tutelage of Major Bill Curry, I became fairly buff.  I weighed 100 lbs and was 5 ft when I entered and upon gradation weighed 150 was 5'10" and all muscle. Lynn has a picture of me in a bathing suit to show and  prove that fact.

                                                              "Rock" Berkowitz at 17

I graduated with honors (Cum Laude), and received ribbons for honor roll, best dressed cadet, was my platoon's Technical Sargent and lettered in Golf.  What I most remember were my fabulous professors. Among the most memorable were:  Commandant Col. Burnett,  Ass't. Commandant and my chemistry professor, Capt, Edwards, Math Professors: Col. West and Major. Brewster, English Professor, Col. Wilkinson, Gym Professor,  Major Curry and History Professor, Maj. Paget.

Col. Wilkinson gave me my first ever A in English for an assigned book report and that gave me confidence and started me on the path of loving to write. 

GMA's future president, Bill Brewster, who was then my math instructor and a former Naval Academy Graduate, a retired Marine Corps Major and pilot urged me to go to The Naval Academy. I told him, in my junior year, I had no desire to do so but we compromised and I took the West Point Physical in gym the entire year in case I changed my mind. Upon graduation, I applied to Princeton, Penn (Wharton) and was accepted at Penn. I later learned I messed up answering a question on the English part of my ACATS and thus did not get accepted to Princeton. Probably just as well.  Had I gone to this more prestigious and "Waspy University" my life would have taken a different path.

A Birmingham girl, Jackie Levingston, was my Graduation Date. She came to Atlanta with my folks. That summer we decided, with her going to Sophie Newcomb and me at Penn, we should not continue our dating. Jackie was my first love. She is married to a Tulane trained psychiatrist practicing in Miami. When I graduated from The University of Miami Law School they were living in our neighborhood and I offered her our Bassett Hound, Bridget, and she was delighted to have her because I could not bring Bridget to Atlanta. 

More later.

THE UNIVERSITY OF PENNSYLVANIA YEARS - WHARTON - 1950 - 1954

Those I came to know:

I entered Penn in 1950 and graduated in 1954. My memorable events at Wharton were" as follows:

a) I joined Phi Epsilon Pi Fraternity and found it not to my liking though I was elected to the position of Recording Secretary in my Sophomore Year. I thought the process of selecting members was snooty and undemocratic and was. I never really adjusted to "Frat Life." Being an only child, I guess I had adjusted to being a one on oner and did not, all of a sudden, need 40 plus brothers.

b) I met Bruce Crawford.  Bruce was a transfer student from Boston, came from a middle class family and in Boston belonged to a lesser prestigious fraternity whereas at Penn the same was an elite, small fraternity and they had to let Bruce join. He could not afford the cost so became the paid overseer of their kitchen. Other "brothers" were from the Luken (steel) family, De Havilland (French Pottery) family, the  Manville (asbestos) family, the DuPont (chemicals) family, among others. Bruce felt out of place.  I do not remember how we met but we clicked because I felt out of place as well. Bruce and I were thick for the two years he remained at Penn and in the summer of my Junior Year he became employed as a member of Penn's Student Placement Service and arranged for me to spend the summer, as a crew member, on a cruiser owned by a prestigious white shoe Philadelphia law firm used to entertain clients and their families.

When I informed my folks I would not be coming home that summer they insisted I thank Bruce but tell him I could not accept his generous offer. I dutifully went home. The actual reason my father did not want me to accept was his concern I would not fit in being Jewish and, possibly, squiring young ladies to private exclusive country clubs where Jews were not allowed to join. I learned this by asking him had the boat been owned by the Gimbel Family would it have been alright and he admitted it would. 

I believe my father, who came from a poor working family, was projecting his own insecurity or possibly trying to protect me.

Upon my return in the fall, Bruce and I were never as close as we were before that summer.

Bruce set his sights high and I always knew he would succeed.  He ultimately became Chairman of Omnicom. Omnicom is one of the largest and greatest domestic advertising firms and along the way  Bruce also became Chairman of The New York Opera.  Bruce's favorite author was F. Scott Fitzgerald and I knew he would become one of the author's characters in real life. Bruce is a class act and I hope to see him before we both depart. I own a little Omnicom stock.

c) I met Nancy and she became my girlfriend beginning late in my Sophomore year and until we broke up .(More later). She was a year older than me, was from Cincinnati, andeventually a Penn occupational therapy graduate. 

Frankly, my mother never cared for any of the very few girls I dated. She did come to love Lynn but even that took a while. They were never good enough, was her excuse, but that was far from the truth.  I suspect she could not let go of her only son.

d) My Penn Professors were either great or not. The four that had the greatest impact on my future life were Professors: "Jerry" Jeremiah and Frank Parker. Both were Corporate Finance Professors. The other two were Professors Black and Harbeson, both English Literature Professors. I had some other professors who were well known, one becoming a future Ambassador and the other's daughter becoming an Ambassador as well.  

Why these four? I always had a Walter Mitty Dream about Wall Street and becoming a partner in a NYSE Firm and because of Col. Harvey Wilkinson, my English Professor at GMA, I  developed my love of writing and books. The math associated with corporate finance, the rational reasoning connectedd to Capitalism and making money in the stock market always appealed to me. Perhaps I saw too many movies starring Wall Street moguls/types.

e) I also met/had some wonderful classmates who became long time friends, though, post college, we seldom saw/see each other. Ross Hirshorn was my roommate until I moved off campus.  Ross' mother and father (Gert and Bill now deceased) became surrogate parents. Ross became a very successful writer's agent in a renowned Los Angeles Talent Agency, did very well, retired young and lives in Carmel. 

Jay Levy (deceased) was a living Howard Roark, the famous architect in Ayn Rand's Novel: "The Fountain Head." Jay was a South Philly kid from a poor family who became Dean of Penn's School of Architecture. He married a dear girl. 

Larry Feldman, from Boston, spent a Thanksgiving with me and my family in Birmingham. Larry worked for Hertz Trucking, has a wonderful wife and his son visited  us in Savannah. My mother loved Larry.

I stay in touch with several other former fraternity brothers.  Two read my memos, a third, Don Lubin, spoke for me in Savannah during my JEA Seminar Program years. Don was Ray Kroc's personal lawyer, the founder of McDonald's. Don served on their board and became America's most prominent franchisee lawyer and partner in a prestigious Chicago Law firm. Upon retirement Don Chaired the Ronald McDonald House Foundation. 

Victor Barnett, was from London and his family were among the wealthiest Jews in England. During the War, they wanted Victor out of London so he was moved to America.  Victor was Chairman of Burberry for many years, retired and now is back involved with Burberry in some capacity. His wife is an activist in an official federal capacity.

I stayed in touch with Dr. Marshall Goldman until his death and he also spoke for me in Savannah. Marshall was my fraternity "big brother," taught at Wellesley, founded the Russian Institute at Harvard,  was an expert on Russia and a consultant with our State Department. He wrote many books, spoke fluent Russian and when in Savannah discussed his book: "Russia - Petro-State."  His wife, Merl, is an expert on China. Marshall and Merl dated while at Penn and were among the most brilliant students and were forward thinking because of their interest in Russia and China.

f) During the brief time I remained in the fraternity, our advisor was Professor Henry (Hank) Abraham.  Hank was a professor in Penn's Political Science Department. He was told he would not get tenured so he left to join the Political Science Department at The University of Virginia, entering as a tenured professor.  Hank, as I have often written, was the nation's expert on the history of The SCOTUS.  His closest Court friends were Justices Scalia and Thomas. Hank also spoke for me in Savannah.  He died several years ago near the age of 100. 

Hank also warned me about Justice Roberts' prospective and favorable vote on Obamacare. I thought Hank was wrong but he proved omniscient. He told me, Roberts could not be depended upon in terms of his voting being more interested in maintaining comity and keeping The Court out of politics. How true Hank proved to be.

g) I moved downtown in my Junior year after I dropped out of  my fraternity and rented a room in Sadie Gold's rundown townhouse near Rittenhouse Square on Delancey Street. Today, if her family still owns the home, it must be worth millions because it is in one of  Philadelphia's swanky, rehabilitated neighborhoods. Two girls, one from Atlanta named Janet, lived in the basement apartment. I never really got to know them but when I moved to Atlanta I re-met Janet. She had become the wife of Philip Sunshine. His family owned department stores and a beach home at Tybee. Sadly enough, Janet died some years ago from cancer.  She was absolutely a striking beauty, 6 degrees of separation.

Two other renters were friends of my girlfriend, Nancy. One was drop dead gorgeous, the other, Betty, was anorexic and subsequently committed suicide. So sad.

h) My father and mother came to Philadelphia to visit on their way to their first European trip and, while there, my father traded my Green Jeepster, which he had bought the summer after my Freshman year, for a black MG TD with red leather interior.  While at Penn, I either made A's if I enjoyed the class and/or professor or D's and C's, if not.  I will tell the story about my infamous "F" later because it shaped my life forever.

I did not understand why I was being rewarded, because of my poor grade average,  but it turned out my father thought the car would diminish my involvement with Nancy. Since he never drove a car in his life he did not understand it enhanced our relationship. It even raised my status on campus. The one negative, now that I was living downtown, was that I began to get parking tickets because there was only one hour parking until 5 or 6 PM and I would come home after classes around 3PM. I dutifully moved it every hour by driving around the block and always found my former space open, so another ticket.

One day a policeman came to Gold's home and I answered the door and my heart sank. Turned out he was seeking Sadie to hand her a summons about her failure to pay property taxes. Today, including interest and penalties, I probably owe "Millions"  to the Philadelphia Police Department  for Parking Violations.

Because I now had reliable "wheels," Nany and I discovered Buck's County, The Towpath Inn and the Schneweiss's B and B. Mama Schneweiss took a liking to us, partly because Nancy's family background was German.  Mama S always made sure we had separate rooms when we came and loved to cook her famous dumplings , etc.  I am sure they are gone   but what delightful weekends we would spend with them when I had spare funds. As for the Towpath Inn, it was a great local bar (still there I am told.) We were not drinkers and though underage the owner would allow us to come and be part of the local crowd.

i) There are other "happenings" I can mention  like watching the McCarthy Hearings in Huston Hall, my Marine student friend who had lost a leg in the Korean War but I will end with the story about my "F" but first my Penn Football story.

In those days , as you began your Freshman year, you took a physical to determine whether you had gym or could elect some other physical activity.  You will recall, I took the West Point Physical at GMA as a compromise with Major Brewster, so when I went for the mandatory gym test at Penn, I blew the socks off their records.  It was basically the same type test, ie. high jump, runaround "Indian pin ball" objects, push ups, pull ups and the like.  So I was free to elect another activity and chose Fencing because Professor Slazar (sp?) was the former Hungarian Olympic Fencing Master.

Several days later, I got a call from an assistant coach of the Penn Football Team. At that time Penn had an acceptable team with Bernie Lemonick, "Reds" Bagnell  and Coach Charlie Munger, etc. The coach on the phone had seen my gym results and asked whether I would try out for the team. I explained why I would not and that ended any prospective football career I never contemplated.

I joined The ROTC Program figuring I had already done everything at GMA and it would keep me deferred and pay for some of my college tuition, etc. (My first year at Penn was something like $1300 up from GMA which had gone from $900 to $1150.) I also read where you could drop out of ROTC after two weeks with no penalty. I decided after one week, before I was issued uniforms, it would be stupid, during the year, to do what I already had done for 4 years so I quit.  I then realized I would be subject to the draft so I joined an Active Marine Reserve Unit located at The Philadelphia Naval Yard and was assigned to a Howitzer Unit. I also liked the idea of becoming a Marine so I joined the Marine PLC program, shortly thereafter.  The PLC Program was held in the summer and would keep me deferred until graduation.

The summer of my Sophomore Year I went to Camp Getchie for the first of two summers of training to become a Marine 2d Lt. Camp Getchie was in the "boonies" near Main Base Quantico.  Except for the heat and map reading, which I never understood because spatial thinking is not my cup of tea, it was a "breeze."  We were taught to march, salute, go on long bivouacs, exposed to some basics on marksmanship (I was terrible with an M1 but better with a stationery BAR, ) etc. I did fine and when the summer was over I drove out in uniform in my MG with one stripe which I had already earned from my Reserve Duty.

My mother had apoplexy when she heard I decided to become a Marine. I explained to both her and my father since I had to serve (it was still during the draft) and, I might one day have to kill, I should learn from the best. My logic did not convince them but the idea of being a Marine not only fit my logic but made me feel a few inches taller. To this day I think Marine Dress Uniforms are fabulous. (More later.)

On my drive home, I passed through a small town in North Carolina and saw a sign, " thoroughbred  Beagle puppies for sale" and, being the compulsive person I am, purchased a beautiful 8 week (I believe) old puppy. When I got home, my mother had forgotten about my being a Marine and nearly dropped dead when she saw her new tail wagging son.

First thing she asked was how could I take him back to college and I said he was a gift and I knew she would come to love him, which she actually did. When I left for college some two weeks or so later, they had bonded except for his baying at night.

Lamentably, when I returned to college two bad things occurred. Mother did not know she needed to take her new son for a leptospirosis shot, whatever that is, and he died from that kind of infection or so the vet told her (or so she told me.)  She was very distraught and I was mortified because I did not know and thought he had all the required shots.

Worst of all,  I received a letter from The Commandant of The Marine Corps informing me my grade average was below  C and I would no longer be allowed to remain in the PLC program.  I was given an F by Penn's ROTC Department and it brought my grade average below  C.  I hurried to the ROTC Department and was told, because I never informed them I dropped out of the program,  they reported an F and could not remove it and that ended my career in the Marine Corps. I was and remain mortified to this day. Had I been allowed to remain, I believe I would have stayed. I still have one item that hangs on the door to my "man cave" with a red Marine cap hanging there as well.

Of course, had I remained in The Marine Corps, I would never have met my first wife, had three daughters I love, met Lynn and had another daughter and son I love, 9 grandchildren and three great grandchildren I love and four sons-in law and one daughter -in-law I love and their respective families and, most important of all, The Marine Corps survived without yours truly. However, as noted above, had I remained, I wonder what rank I may have obtained, etc. Life takes funny turns and I have had my share.

Another thing happened while I was at Camp Getchie. I got weekend pass so I met Nancy in Annapolis and two things occurred. First, I discovered a College named St John's across the road and down a few shaded streets from the entrance to The Naval Academy.  More later about St John's but, many years afterwards, I did become a Board of Visitor's Member of that College. 

As for Nancy, she began therapy during my  Junior year and before she came to Miami that summer. She also spent most of my Junior year out of town training in her field of endeavor so after meeting my mother in Miami Beach and not passing the test, followed by her absence and compounded by her therapy our relationship had weakened. The day we spent in Annapolis she told me her therapist thought she should cool the relationship because she should not put herself  in a position of making any major decisions. I believe we both thought we were headed toward marriage.

Nancy was a wonderful young lady but her parents were very strict German types ( frankly I thought they physically resembled the comic book Katzenjammer Kid's parents.)  She believed  they worshipped her young brother and it gave her all kind of insecurities. We seldom saw each other throughout my Senior year.

I was now in a "draft" dilemma because I was still in the Active Marine Reserves so my unit could be called up and I had lost my deferment because I was no longer in the PLC. I asked my father to talk to the Draft Board and have them defer me until after I graduated and would then serve my two years in the Army and get that obligation behind me which he and they did.

I graduated, not at the top of my class, as I had at GMA, but, for the last two years, I made nothing less than "B's" and mostly "'A's'" and graduated in the top third.

I did not attend graduation because I knew I was soon to be inducted into the Army.

MILITARY SERVICE IN FRANCE - MARRIAGE TO DOROTHEA (DOLLY) LEAVITT - 1954 - 1956

I was inducted in September of 1954 and sent to Fort Jackson. in South Carolina. Because of my prior military experience, the Army waived basic training, and my Wharton education I was placed in The Finance Corps and assigned to Ft. Belvoir where I processed travel vouchers. While doing this, many of my fellow married soldiers were being sent here and there and separated from their families. I was also bored so I asked my father could he talk to his old friend, Senator John Sparkman, then Chairman of The Armed Services Committee, about being sent overseas. Dad said he would. 

In the interim, I had been invited to a wedding of one of my co-workers where I met my former wife.  I had never been drunk but I was seated at a table of young married couples from the north and they liked my "suthren" accent and began to offer me drinks until I was plowed under.  I remember dancing with a dazzling girl in a purple dress before I got sick and was taken home.  I sent my suit to the cleaners after looking for, what I remember was her telephone number, but to no avail.  When my suit came back, the cleaner had pressed it without emptying the pockets and her telephone number was there. I called her, got a pass and that weekend drove to New York and we met again. I believe I did this once more and decided, since I was probably going to be sent overseas, we could get married and learn about each other somewhere in possibly Europe. She agreed and I called my folks and they flew up to meet her parents. She was all of 18, I was nearing 22.

Obviously my compulsivity was reinforced by my re-bound experience and previous  relationship with Nancy.

Several weeks later, I was called in by my Captain and told I had an appointment with Sen. Sparkman and was to meet him Saturday. I asked could I get a pass and I am sure my  "Boss" was wondering what was happening. I met Senator Sparkman in The Senate Office Building's Armed Service's "digs" and he was flanked by a young aide. They were both sitting at a desk in this cavernous room and I introduced myself. The Senator was handsome, every bit the part of an august Senator. He inquired how my father was and said he understood I wanted to go overseas. I started to explain why and he cut me off and said "Son, I don't have time for that, just tell me where you want to go."  I had given little thought to the where so I blurted out France. He thanked me, said he had many requests asking not to be sent overseas, mine was unusual and probably the first of it's kind and sent me on my way. Two weeks later I had orders to go to France and within that time I became a married man.

We actually were married by a Rabbi named Berkowitz, no relation, in New York. The wedding was limited to respective families, a few close friends followed by a luncheon. I also used all of my vacation time for a honeymoon which entailed an overnight in a Miami Beach Hotel, followed by an overnight cruise to Nassau and a return to my base. After 4 days, my wife returned to be with her family until I was settled in France.

Our honeymoon was, I am sad to say, not an enjoyable one. Obviously my wife (Dolly was her nickname) was young, had never been out of New York, except to go to camp when, for two weeks, her father was the camp doctor. She thought New York was everything in the world and nothing could measure up to The Big Apple. After we arrived at our hotel in Miami Beach a storm occurred. The wind was so strong a little wren, or some such tiny bird, was blown or flew into our beach front glass door, and must have broken it's neck and died. Very upsetting. 

Furthermore, I owned this beautiful Sunbeam Talbot Alpine, which I had bought after trading in my MG and asked my mother to please come up, drive it home and she said "no."  This was the same beautiful powder blue car Grace Kelly had driven in the movie: "To Catch A Thief." I was unaware, at the time, even an enlisted man could have his car shipped overseas by the Army. I sold it for $1800 and took a small loss. I believe it cost me around $2200 less what they allowed me on my MG. Today that car would sell for 10 to 20 times that because it was not a widely produced car and was a beauty, almost as beautiful as Grace Kelly.

MILITARY LIFE IN FRANCE AND I BECOME A FATHER - 1955-1956

After landing in the Azores to refuel, we landed at Frankfurt. Then I trained to Orleans by way of Paris. I arrived at what was called The Colony Caserne in what was known as the COMMUNICATION ZONE.  France was not then part of NATO and De Gaulle was President. The base had about 3 to 5,000 troops stationed in Orleans and we serviced American forces stationed in Europe. I located a small place to live in the village of  Meung Sur Loire, some 8 miles from my base and negotiated the monthly rental with the owner (Madame Gennart sp?)who was able to live in Nice on what I paid in rent.  I received a separate allowance to live off  base because I was married, even though a low ranked enlisted man. The French knew they could charge increased sums. In those days, the Franc was 350 to one American Scrip. I forget what my salary was or the off base allowance (combined something around $225/month) but we were able to live and shopped at the PX because it was cheaper, sold American products we knew and also because we were forbidden to buy French vegetables or anything fresh. In 1954 the French were still recovering from WW 2, were engaged in losing in Indo China and were still using human waste as fertilizer.

Dolly arrived a month or so later and I met her in Paris. We spent the evening in one of the beautiful boutique Hôtel de la Trémoille which is around the corner from the Champs and near the famous Grand Hotel.  Today our $30 room  runs about $1000. We had dinner that evening in a close by restaurant and drove back in the VW I bought after I found the Renault, I first purchased from an MP returning home, was rusty and beyond repair. Compulsive me.

Dolly spoke a little French from her high school days and we settled into married life. When I look back, I now realize this 18 year old girl had left her family in New York to marry someone from the South she did not know, was now in France without any friends and family and had nothing to do the entire day. To her credit, she became friendly with some of the French women in the village and we became particularly close to Madame Cheneaux (sp?) whose son, Oscar, was called the "village idiot" because of some mental issues but good at fixing just about everything. Madame Cheneaux was a very dear person. We also became friends with the wealthiest man, Paul Wilhelm, in the village who owned the local flour mill. Paul was young, unmarried and wonderful.

We lived in France when Communism was strong, particularly in our Village, so having an American Soldier was not a guest worthy of a key from the Mayor.

The place I rented was triangular in shape, located on the corner across from the Local Bar and Tabac Shoppe and down the street from the Boulangerie and other stores. If memory serves me, our first floor was tiled, had no furniture, was not heated and had a toilet. The second floor was our dining room and tiny kitchen and the third floor was a bedroom with a bathroom consisting of a shower and sink. I eventually purchased a 4 cubic foot refrigerator at The PX and we were mocked by the villagers  because it used so much electricity. In those days the French shopped daily and kept some food items outside on a ledge in a dish of cold water.

DEBRA BORN - I BECOME A FATHER  At 23:

Dolly became pregnant and delivered our first daughter, Debra, on April 20, 1956.  A few weeks later my folks visited to meet their first grandchild. They stayed two days then bid goodbye.

My wife had an American Military OB, Captain Martin "Marty" Cohen, who subsequently opened a Park Avenue practice after leaving the military.  Debra was born in what had been a Nun's facility  taken over by The Germans, converted into  their Gestapo Headquarters for the region and subsequently re-converted into an American Military Hospital. Madame Cheneaux was a blessing and the entire village was excited to have a new birth even though they knew she would not be raised a Communist.

We now had to vacate our cramped quarters and moved to a petite chateau in another village Beaujeuncy (sp?), a few miles west and we shared it with a co-American military associate (Porter and Mary Kier) who also just had a son after years of trying to conceive. Porter was a corporal, I a private.  A Captain in the French Air Force with his wife and two children lived in our unattached garage-apartment. We could afford the house and he our garage in his own country.  While I am on this subject,  Orleans had been drained of all French males because of the war in Indo China. Meanwhile single black American troops had a liberating  experience because they had money, were fun, could dance, and most of all, were free to date white women. Could this have happened in Birmingham.?

After Debra was born and our move, things turned up for Dolly because she had Mary for company and they had infant children in common.  Porter and I were already good friends and we shared a car leaving one for the wives.

I began thinking about law school and applied to The University of Alabama and was immediately accepted.  A short time later I read about Cov. Wallace standing in the doorway and the Law School rejecting Arthurine Lucy's application. Hot head, compulsive me, sent a letter to the Dean asking him to withdraw my acceptance based on the fact how could the law school teach  law if they disobeyed the law. I did not tell my father. The Dean replied I did not know the facts but would accept my request.

 I informed my father and he suggested I apply to The University of Miami because he had a part ownership in three Miami cemeteries and would share his monthly check with me and maybe I could work in one and live in the caretaker's house. I did apply, was accepted and my discharge orders came through in time for me to return home, register for Law School, work at the cemetery in the afternoon, subject to my class schedule, and study in the evening. 

RETURNING FROM FRANCE- NEW LIFE BEGINS - 1956

On the voyage home, because I was married, I was able to sleep in a cabin with other husbands and our wives were cabined with other women with babies aboard. The SS Buckner was about 500 feet in length.  As we passed through the White Cliffs the seas began to churn and all aboard became sick, dishes broke and the mess became a bigger mess. I could only visit my wife and daughter at certain times and Debra developed a horrible diaper rash.  I believe the trip took 7 or so days and we landed at a New York Port. Dolly was met by her folks and I had to get our VW and sign discharge documents. As I drove to the Bronx, I began taking off my uniform and throwing it off to the side of the road. I arrived in a t shirt and pants and later found out I needed to retain my uniform because I was still draft-able in the event of a re-call. Compulsive me.

Dolly's father, Jacob Leavitt (Jack), was a board certified gastro doctor and her mother (Lillian)  his office manager and neither knew much about how to treat Debra's growing diaper rash. This was their first grandchild. Instead of suggesting going to the drug store and asking the pharmacist, I suggested a baking soda and water solution would do the trick.  Obviously it only caused her to scream because it burned.  Again, compulsive me.

UNIVERSITY OF MIAMI LAW SCHOOL YEARS: - 1956 - 1960

We made it to Miami, I entered Law School and Dolly was again left alone with a young daughter living behind a cemetery. The ground keeper's home was comfortable and even had a small backyard.  Once again I had to drive to school in Coral Gables so Dolly was left without a car. I did come home around 3:00 PM, performed whatever cemetery work was required, ate dinner and studied into the late night.

During the first two years of law school we did not have much of a social life. I developed a great friendship with a brilliant classmate who  was top in our class.  I also made Law Review which took up more of my time. My father eventually sold his interest in the cemeteries and we moved nearer to Coral Gables and into a bigger house in a nice neighborhood so Dolly finally had friends, particularly our next door neighbor, Chris, her husband and their daughter. Chris was a polio victim, confined to a wheel chair and her husband was an independent freight pilot, a chess player and cared for his wife but needed to do freight runs to earn money so hired people twho took care of Chris in his absence. We helped where we could. On one trip to India, my next door neighbor pilot buddy bought an Indian hand carved Ivory Chess Set which was very small so we continued to use my own French hand carved set. I still own both to this day but seldom play Chess. My father taught me and was very good. 

Though our social life was better we were still restricted by funds and time.  I was no longer working  but still had studying demands and more time to get to know my beautiful daughter and help where I could. I also bought a female Basset Hound and named her Bridget after the French Actress.

I began therapy in the hope of figuring out who I was and why I was who I was.  My therapist was a  handsome man, a former Airforce psychiatrist who met with pilots after their bombing runs over Germany and France.  He was stationed in England and was a member of The 8th Airforce whose  stupendous museum is in Savannah. Lou Rogel was a Freudian disciple and  helped me gain insights but I left before we had the opportunity to probe as deep as I needed. In essence,  my therapy was truncated because I was moving to Atlanta to begin my career as a retail stock broker. 

                                                                       Lou Rogel

I did learn, with Lou's guidance,  I may have misinterpreted why my father sent me to military school. Apparently I saw it as punishment and consequently psychologically sublimated my feelings and honed my cynicism in order to protect myself from punishment. I fit the typical Oedipus Rex Complex. Though I have come a long way, as noted in the FORWARD,  it is difficlt for me to allow my deeper feelings to show and has restricted my ability to be a better father and even a better husband. They say one's basic personality is formed by the time you are three.  If that be so, I have spent 85 years continuing to bury my feelings under a lot of emotional top soil.

Lou actually lived close by but I never knew until the week before I was leaving for Atlanta to begin my career as a stockbroker. I had ended my therapy and he felt ethically he could invite  me to go fishing in his new boat.

Again, when I look back and as I write, I never appreciated what my wife had endured considering her age, our vast personality differences, my own immaturity and the fact that she was totally cut off from family because of distance and lack of  available funds. My father was still helping out and I had the GI bill but we were financially "tick tight."  

COURTS & COMPANY INTERVIEW  AND THE SAIL FISH: 1960-1970

I had to take another semester to finish so I graduated in January 1960 instead of June 1959. In the summer of 1959, I went to Birmingham to talk to an old neighbor who managed the Birmingham Office of Courts & Co, a NYSE firm, headquartered in Atlanta and the largest member  firm in the South East. He drove me to Atlanta, thinking, as I did,  I would return to Birmingham if hired and be the first Jewish stock broker in Birmingham.  Mervyn Sterne was the Jewish head of Sterne, Agee and Leach  but they were primarily a bond house and my interest was equities. As it turned out, I was hired and one of Court's, at that time, only Jewish partners (Al Revson) urged me to stay in Atlanta.  His mother, Fannie, owned an upscale antique shop in Savannah. I accepted the offer and chose to remain in Atlanta.

Arthur, who drove me to Atlanta and thought I was joining the Birmingham office  felt he had been stabbed and I now realize I had not handled the decision well. It was a long , silent drive back to Birmingham. More later.

Dolly flew to Atlanta with Debra, found an apartment on Peachtree Street down several miles from Buckhead and across the street from The Atlanta Jewish Community Center and also on a bus line.

Again, I did not attend my  law school graduation because I was due to start work on Feb 1, 1960. My father flew down and drove back with me in our VW with a Sail fish I had caught and had mounted when he took me on a fishing trip in The Keys. That Sail still hangs in our garage. When I caught it, I could not afford to have it mounted ($90) but my father knew I wanted it so he financed me and told me to repay him when I could. I did the first year I was a registered broker.  Al Pfleuger  was the then go to taxidermist and mounted the actual fish , original scales and all. Today they make a plaster model and probably charge 3 times as much or more.

THE COURTS & COMPANY YEARS - AMY AND LISA ARE BORN - 1960 - 1970

We arrived in Atlanta a few days before I was due to start my career at Courts & Company. My father flew home and I helped set up our apartment.

The second week I was in Atlanta I received a call from Lou Rogel's wife, Louise, telling me he died while I was driving to Atlanta and shortly after we went out fishing. She did not have the heart to tell me earlier. Apparently Lou knew he had a bad heart. He smoked incessantly and put his cigarette through a peppermint while he smoked. She also said he knew his condition was tenuous but wanted to live right up to his last breath and bought the boat anyway. He left a son named Mark.

After her call, I felt like Joe Louis had hit me in the stomach.  I still have Lou's picture on a library shelf and owe him so much.

Shortly after I relocated to Atlanta, I visited GMA, met with Maj. Bill Brewster, who was then President, and  I suggested GMA needed to form an Alumni Association.  He agreed and asked  would I do it and I said I would but needed the names and addresses of living graduates so Icould  write a letter informing them an alumni association was being formed if he would have it printed and mailed. He agreed to that as well.

When I attended GMA, Maj. Brewster's father was the president.  His father had married the daughter of the founder and Bill succeeded his father when he died. GMA was founded in 1900 and some of Atlanta's most successful businessmen graduated from GMA, ie. Bob Woodruff of Coca Cola, the founder of Georgia Life and several others.

In the early 60's, Major Brewster also informed me, in order for GMA to survive the anti-military sentiment, the school must become co-ed and asked my opinion. I told him I understood and hoped it would remain a school where discipline was important. GMAl was re-named Woodward Academy in 1966, after GMA's founding family, and has become the largest, in terms of the number of students, private school in the nation with several campuses and classes beginning with kindergarten through high school. Subsequent to Major Brewster's retirement, Woodward has had four presidents and thrives as one of 6 top private schools in the Atlanta Area. (Parenthetically, Lisa, Daniel and Abby attended Woodward.)

Maj. Brewster's mother (Mildred) and my former English Literature professor (Col. Harvey Wilkinson) were among my earliest clients as was Wesley Sturges, the former, retired dean of Yale's Law School who was Dean at The University of Miami's Law School while I was a student.  Wesley was a hero of mine. He loved bourbon and his face was lined like the Coast of Maine where he was from. He was among my many "Mr. Chips!" (More below.)

Courts & Co., as previously noted, was the largest Southeastern based Member Firm (NYSE)  with offices in Georgia, Alabama, South Carolina and eventually in Tennessee.  The firm was established by two brothers, Richard W, who at the time was a bachelor and Malon.  Malon died playing tennis. His son, Richard Jr., was a member/eventual partner of the firm. 

My first week at Courts was one of orientation and began February 1,1960.  While in Law School, I had taken The La Salle extension course and thus was qualified to begin my brokerage career in a much shorter time having taken most of the required reading material and exams. I was paid a salary during my first six months and after that was on my own. The firm had 10 or 11 general partners but lacked cash capital. Our biggest southern competitor was Robinson Humphrey, also headquartered in Atlanta and located across the street from Courts and Company's  home at Broad and Peachtree.

I became registered after 3 months and began making cold calls and writing brokerage reports I thought would appeal to men and women. On weekends I would slip them through doors of doctor's and other professional's offices and later call them and chat if they would speak to me. In 1960 you could actually get doctors to come to the phone as well as most professionals. I even got a few doctors who let me visit their offices to discuss their portfolios/investments and, because I had a law degree and graduated from Wharton, it worked in my favor.  Many brokers in Atlanta, at that time, had graduated from UGA and were also golfers, some former football players. My mentor, Al Revson, had a very established clientele, belonged to The Standard Club, was a golfer and was a big help mentoring me, was generous in giving me ideas, leads and advice. He even picked me up some mornings in his Porsche when Dolly needed our car and we would drive to work together and talk. Al and I became thick.

Al also introduced me to Louis Montag, who established the first investment counselling firm in the Southeast. Montag  and Caldwell continues to thrive to this day and their head , Ron Cnakaris, is someone I helped join the firm starting as director of their internal Research Department. They run some of our small Charitable Foundation funds and have done a marvelous job.

Again, six degrees of separation:  one of Louis Montag's two sons lives at The Landings, is a dear friend and married  a native of Savannah and is now a friend of Lynn.


KAY AND NELLIE HEDERI

My best clients were those who liked helping me get other clients and I had one who was a salesman with Haggar Slacks who lived in Jackson, Mississippi and traveled Georgia. Karim Hederi (Kay) became my first significant client, was married to a lovely Romance Language Professor (Nellie) at Millsaps College in Jackson and were childless. Kay was a Lebanese American, as was the founder of Haggar Slacks which was headquartered in Dallas, Texas. Kay had many retail customers in Georgia and a large family. Kay and Nellie loved Debra and eventually became like surrogate parents. Kay sold slacks and spent a good bit of his time talking me up with his own customers.  As noted, he was my first large client and remained so until he died. I was a pall bearer at his funeral and handled Nellie's portfolio until she passed. During the intervening years I was a broker to some of Kay's family members, his Jackson friends and probably ten or so of his retail customers. Nellie gave me a ring Kay loved, knowing how much I treasured him. 

 Kay's picture is on another shelf in my den and they remain in my heart and always will.

                                                                    Kay Hederi

Dolly made her own friends as well.  Atlanta, in 1960,  was a warm and welcoming city that hungered to have young people and was small enough (750,000) so you could get around easily. I became friendly with the Orkin family and in my first year was considered the finder of their public offering.  Courts, along with Merrill Lynch became the underwriter. For introducing them to our firm, I received a finder's fee and was allocated  as many shares as I wanted and could place. Mr. Courts wrote me a letter which I still have urging me to slow down because I was like a man on fire.


My Walter Mitty goal was to become a general partner of a Member Firm within 10 years. During the intervening period a lot happened:

A) At the time, Orkin was the largest industrial public offering  in the Southeast and since we lacked the necessary capital we joined with Merrill who handled the books and whose name was the lead on the prospectus.

B) The Orkin underwriting convinced me to try my hand at investment banking ( primarily mergers and acquisitions) and for the next 6 years I successfully merged a N.C company with Teledyne, brought Golden Flake Inc.(Birmingham potato chip maker) public, sold a New Jersey company to Rexall, another New York company to Automatic Retailer and I merged Dwoskin Decorating of Atlanta into Rollins Inc. which had subsequently acquired Orkin.

C) I also got the idea of working with institutional investors and introduced them to public companies located in Atlanta and in the Southeast. Many of these companies were served by Courts as their investment banker. My first success was getting  Almon Manspeaker, the investment VP at Stanford University, to buy Delta. Mr. Courts was responsible for Delta going public when it was still a Louisiana crop duster. He sat on Delta's Board, was also on the Board of IBM World Trade Org., was a friend of Tom Watson and helped McChesney Martin become Chairman of The Federal Reserve. In previous years, RW, as we called him, had sold Sapelo Island (Barrier Island in McIntosh County, Georgia) to the Reynold's family. This was the banker side of the tobacco family and they owned Reynold's and Co. a NYSE Member. I mention this because that becomes relevant in 1969.

Boutique Hedge Funds were becoming the rage and I made it my business to contact several as well as mutual funds who bought Oxford Industries, Genuine Parts, even Taylor Wine (we had published  a major report on this New York domiciled company) and many other such growing public southern based corporations.   My first Hedge Fund Order was from Steinhardt, Fine and Berkowitz (no relationship) to purchase 100,000 shares of Oxford Industries followed by Ed Bragdon's, a PM with the Fidelity Mutual Fund Group, order to buy 50,000 Taylor Wine. Ed was subsequently criticized for buying a liquor company and sold it through us some days later. Eventually Coca Cola acquired Taylor Wine and also recanted several year's later.

I also made a trip to New York to meet with two Senior Portfolio Managers of The U.S. Trust company.  One was married to Abby Rockefeller. I brought the Chairman (Milton Weinstein) of National Service Industries (A venerable Atlanta company) with me as well as introduced them to Cousin's Properties. They told me both companies' market capitalization was too small  because U.S Trust Company's appetite for purchases was large.  Both the PM's who met with us eventually purchased Cousins personally and made additional fortunes as the stock rose from less than 10 to well over 60 after several splits. 

 D) Our second daughter,  Amy, who was born May 24, 1961. We had moved from our second apartment  into a lovely home on Peachtree Dunwoody Road. The home was originally owned by clients of Al Revson, was built by an Atlanta builder known for unique wood interiors. Our living and dining room walls were of wormy chestnut. The kitchen cabinets were yellow pine and I hired Dwoskin to clean and seal them shortly after we took possession. Dwoskin workers were craftsmen. They made us vacate for 24 hours because they used a proprietary acid solution to remove the accumulated grease.  After they finished the cabinets gleamed. (I have always been a wood nut. The door to my current man cave is Country French and the door to our master bathroom is from an English Bar with etched glass.)

Our third daughter, Lisa, was born on July 8, 1962. She was named after Dolly's mother who had passed away earlier in the year of lung cancer. This was a devastating event. Lilly was a rock, very practical and a dear woman who slaved in her husband's office and was the glue that kept their family moving. Dolly had two older sisters, all living in the state of New York,  Joyce and Judy. My favorite was Judy. Joyce was sweet but tough. Dolly, as her name implied, was the baby sister. Jack, Dolly's father, was brilliant but lacked the personal characteristics you associate with a Park Avenue Doctor. He  had a good heart but was on the impractical side.  He was an excellent diagnostician and prided himself in finding cancers but failed in the case of his wife because, I suspect, he was too close and busy serving others. Joyce and her husband, Marty have passed on as have Judy's husband, Bob.)

I continued to work night and day in order to build my retail clientele in order to provide for my growing family. I traveled a good bit and, during these travels, met some of the most interesting businessmen and investors, among them Arthur Rock (Rock Partners) , Justin Dart (Rexall Drug), Harold Heath ( the president of Heath Tecna)  and many others.

Our house was on a busy residential street with few children in the neighborhood so our then two, soon to become three daughters, had to go elsewhere to find play mates. Dolly wanted to join a country club but I did not understand the rationale of doing so, another mistake on my part, because I saw such as ostentatious and there were other ways to solve the problem. I was never a "fancy" country club, fraternity, "joiner" type. I had given up golf because it took too much time to play on a public course. Furthermore, I always thought golf was a sport and never associated it with business. Talk about being naïve. Another dumb mistake.  Also, my mother never cared to join a country club in Birmingham and that influenced me, as well. My father loved to play pinochle and gin rummy and did join a Club in Birmingham. Dolly and I eventually  joined a neighborhood swim and tennis club some modest distance from the house. I then began playing tennis taking lessons from a neighborhood instructor.  Some fifty plus years later I still play and take lessons. 

I concluded, joining this neighborhood swim and tennis community was my way of resolving the club issue so my daughters had more playmates, Dolly met more friends in her same situation and I got to spend better weekends with the family. These years, lamentably, were blurred because I am guilty of placing work above play and still remain a "work first"  person.

WALTER MITTY DREAM COMES TRUE - I  BECOME A PARTNER - 1967

In October of 1967, I was offered, along with 7 others, the opportunity of becoming a general partner in Courts & Co. effective November 1. I was required to put up $75,000 in cash for my 1% interest.  It was virtually all the free money I had and was to be invested in U.S Treasury Bonds so I would only receive interest on that money.  I was also offered a new car as well as a paid membership in The Commerce Club which was founded by Mills Lane, Chairman of the C & S Bank.

Though my Walter Mitty goal of becoming a partner in a Member Firm had come three years earlier than my dream, I asked McKee Nunnally, Court's managing partner, could I think about it because the fixed salary they were offering me was far below what I was then earning.

At this point I would like to insert some comments about some partners of Courts & Co. and two dearly beloved friends.

RW Courts was a wonderful man at heart but kept his cards close to his chest, had become protective of what he created and was not in tune with taking risks to grow.  He eventually married one of Atlanta's most beautiful, wealthiest women and it was said RW had arranged a merger. Virginia Campbell's family was big in coal and their foundation is one of the largest, if not the largest, in Georgia. Virginia had all the softness RW lacked.

McKee Nunnally, was a member of the famous Nunnally candy family and married to another Atlanta beauty. McKee was firm, would listen, make a decision, tell you up front and move on and also a man of few words, principled and someone I came to admire very much. 

Notwithstanding the fact McKee presided over my Birmingham neighbor who managed the Birmingham office, had driven me to Atlanta expecting I would return home, McKee hired me to stay in Atlanta. That took more guts than my own display of treachery but McKee was who he was and I respected him. As previously noted, my drive back to Birmingham with Arthur Stansel was pin drop silent and tense. 

McKee finally offered me a base salary and allowed me to keep anything I earned above so I agreed to my key to the men's room, so to speak, and became a General Partner. McKee's reasoning was that I was a producing partner unlike a non-producing one.

Courts' trading desk partner was Richard Harris. Dick was a world class big game hunter and was close friends with the brother of the Shah of Iran and had introduced the Pahlavi family to The U.S. Trust Company. This becomes significant later as well. While I am mentioning Courts' partners three others were socially prominent. Courts' New York partner was Rex Auchincloss (Jackie Kennedy Onasis' uncle) and two others were William Huger ( a member of a famous South Carolina family) and the other Charleston Partner, who ran the Charleston Office, was married to Owen Cheatham's daughter.  Owen was the Chairman of Georgia Pacific. 

John "Sonny" Ellis, was my go to partner for investment banking matters. Sonny was a scratch golfer, liked by everyone, bright as could be and a wonderful man who helped me become more professional. I drove Sonny crazy with my fertile ideas and we made many trips together, had some great and interesting times.

I also developed a wonderful friendship with one of Al Revson's best friends and the three of us lunched together frequently at The Commerce Club, where all the big mules in Atlanta were members. I was still a rebel and did not see fit or needed to belong.  As I noted earlier, when I was offered my partnership  it included a new car  and paid Commerce Club Membership. I declined both offers because I loved my Austin Healy sport car and only ate lunch with Al, who already was a member, and Forest Rutherford. 

Forest was a handsome man, had become one of our brokers and had an engaging personality. He later married a beautiful, elegant woman (Millie) who died shortly after of cancer. What a tragedy. Forest had a fabulous sense of humor and we became very close.  I subsequently learned Al was resentful. I never perceived this. Obtuse me.

Most importantly of all, as noted previously, I had hired, as my "office wife" an older woman, Mary Penuel, to be my secretary in 1961. She was a former WAVE, divorced, devoted to me and her work. I worshipped Mary as did my children. Mary was a fabulous typist, came to love me as I her and she remained my trusted friend for 25 plus years. She wanted to retire after twenty so I had her chained to her desk for another five. When she retired I supplemented her modest SS check because the firm did not have a significant retirement program. Mary died of cancer and her picture remains on another book shelf.  They do not make Mary's anymore!

Knowing me to be compulsive and outspoken, Al Revson told me to say nothing at the first Partner's meeting and I obeyed. However, as a General Partner, I had become concerned about our survivability but kept my mouth shut until a future Partner's Meeting  at which I asked RW where he thought we would be in ten years and when RW replied: "Well right here," I knew my concern was justified and my heart sank. In response, I suggested we initiate a Planning Committee to explore our options and look inward.

Around this same time, Institutional Investor Magazine became the rage on Wall Street and began the first institutional investment conference in New York. It was a huge success and drew many hedge fund managers and other more sedate investors. I convinced Al Revson we should do the same in Atlanta and he should work on RW.  Al did get RW's approval even though RW was not one to spend money and to dream big.  

I was allowed to take my project on and eventually even RW caught the fever and hosted an elegant dinner at the famous and exclusive Piedmont Driving Club, where his brother, Malon, had died playing tennis. ( Ironic that a Courts had died on the courts.) RW also arranged for the economist from IBM World Trade to come and speak and he warned our august assemblage gold was going to soar because of inflation and world profligacy. His talk was anticipatory, very prescient but sort of a downer for an audience who wanted to make money buying stocks in undiscovered Southern Growth Companies.

I do not remember the price of gold at that time but it was under $100/ounce. I have the program of the Company presenters somewhere but cannot put my finger on it however, the two day program, first of it's kind ever in the South, was a "uge" success. By the following week we received enough purchase/sell orders to pay for the cost of the entire event and then some.  I am sure Goldman Sachs profited more than we did because we kept our trading exposure limited. We simply facilitated orders and never positioned.. 

The Planning Committee I previously suggested we investigate forming, was begun and Sonny Ellis, RW, his nephew, McKee and Joe Brown, our comptroller, formed  the committee. I was not included.

That summer I took an extended vacation with the family in Cape Cod, grew a beard and wrestled with my feelings about remaining a Courts partner.  I also was charged with planning the second Institutional Conference but RW wanted me in Atlanta, not in Cape Cod so when I returned and was bearded he called me to his office. He asked me to shave and I refused so he appointed Jay Levine, a brilliant Harvard Business Graduate, who became a partner with me, to host the Conference. I was hurt but had myself to blame because of my obstinate compulsivity.

Meanwhile, unknown to me at the time, the planning committee was busy proving my concerns were justified and that year (1968) we could lose 1 million dollars, certainly the biggest loss we ever sustained and maybe the only one. Our basic problem was we could not handle the level of business we were generating, were way behind in internal bookkeeping and our main margin clerk was still posting in beautiful  penmanship but unfinished margin documents were stacked on the floor.  We basically had lost control of our business and because Courts' capital was low, around $18 million, and consisted of a variety of substitutes for cash, we were on thin ice according to NYSE capital requirements.  RW had 1 million dollars in cash in the firm plus accumulated profits and other partners  much less. Several, one in particular, had the assumed value of his country club membership as his capital contribution. It was probably worth a good bit but not particularly liquid.

As a general partner I feared I could be liable for everything I was worth.

The second Institutional program was successful, Jay did a superb job.  

My marriage continued to suffer from our basic lack of compatibility and I had begun therapy with the dean of Atlanta psychiatrists who, too, was a Freudian devotee. I suggested Dolly should go as well but, for whatever reason, she demurred. By then she had developed friendships among a few women who were advocates of the "Women's Lib Movement" that was sweeping the nation.

I RESIGN BEFORE COURTS MERGES WITH REYNOLDS 1968- 1969

I decided to reluctantly resign my partnership and moved to our Phipps Plaza suburban office so  not to be an embarrassment to my firm's downtown partners and lessen the pain to myself. (Parenthetically, no partner had ever resigned from Courts except yours truly. I know it hurt RW.) Also, I lived within two blocks of the Phipps office and had no responsibilities for it's management. My resignation was never formally acknowledged and several months later I read in the Atlanta Journal, along with every other Courts' employee, including many partners Courts had agreed to be purchased by Reynolds and Company. Atlanta was shocked as were our loyal employees, including the uninformed partners. RW had played it close to his chest and created what came to be a wave of derision, fear of job security and eventual bitterness. It was as if the captain of The Titanic had vacated the ship in the dark of night without informing the passengers.

My faithful Mary had joined me at Phipps.

I subsequently approached our Managing Partner, McKee Nunnally, and asked his permission to consider other employment without prejudice and he graciously said I could but, in turn, wanted me to meet with "Stretch" Gardiner the Head of Reynolds, in New York.  I said I would and did so. Stretch was like 6' 10", very personable and urged me to remain and experience the potential benefits. I thanked him without giving him a definitive answer. (Stretch died recently.)

However, I never could accept the way the merger had been handled and all impacted loyal's were left to be informed by reading the morning newspaper. It was so harsh and disrespectful of those whose entire lives had been invested in Courts. That too was part of the problem as to why we lost control but it was not their fault, though, it became their problem.

LAYING THE FOUNDATION OF THE OPENING FOR BURNHAM & CO IN ATLANTA - 1970

While in New York, I had arranged meetings with Burnham and Company and Oppenheimer and Company. 

One of my Courts partners, Massey Clarkson, was also thinking about leaving. We discussed my visit to chat with "Stretch" and my meetings with Burnham and Oppenheimer.  Massey was very well known in Atlanta Football circles because he was a long time referee and had been associated with Georgia Tech's Football Team as Manager. Massey was well established in the Christian Community, had a charming wife and young daughter and a solid clientele. If I was able to arrange a deal with either Burnham or Oppenheimer, we agreed he would manage the office and I would become head of Institutional Sales. Several Courts' retail  brokers, including Forrest, and one or two from other firms were also interested in joining.

The way in which the Courts/Reynolds merger was handled actually spawned several new member firms to open throughout the South. Courts' entire Gainesville, Georgia, office opened for another firm, many top producers left to join other firms. The bleeding had become serious.  Reynolds did not know what they actually bought when it came to producing brokers. Brokerage producers are notorious for being independent, having shallow loyalties and solid producers are always sought after targets.  Brokerage producers enter elevators  at the bottom and you never know how many will exit on any given day. 

As I write this, I confess the sequencing of some event dates leave me wondering do I have them dated correctly but I have done justice to the narrative part because the essence of what I have written is accurate.

THE BURNHAM YEARS - MY DIVORCE - 1970 - 1980

I know how I connected with Oppenheimer.  A friend happened to be the nephew of one of my clients, had worked at Oppenheimer for many years, was living in Atlanta  and arranged for me to meet some of the firm's principals.

I am not sure how I arranged a meeting with  I.W. "Tubby" Burnham. Tubby's wife was from Montgomery, Alabama and their well regarded Director of Research, Walter "Wally" Stern was from Nashville but I do not know who specifically helped arrange the meeting. I knew no one in either firm.

My first visit was with the folks at Oppenheimer and they seemed uninterested in opening an office in Atlanta at that time.  Oppenheimer was among the first to establish an institutional research department which was well regarded. Their airline analyst was quite well known and respected.

My meeting at Burnham went better. They were a boutique firm, also respected for their research.  They had no offices in the South  but subsequently branches in Dallas, Los Angeles, New Haven, San Francisco and foreign branches in Amsterdam, Brussels, Geneva, London, and Paris. Tubby was in favor of "going South" because he had roots and insights due to his wife's family connections and his own family's Kentucky ones. He turned me over to two younger partners (Sylvan Sheffler and Howard Brenner) including Walter Stern and they grilled me thoroughly.  I brought my institutional/retail production records and we spoke about my investment banking exploits, Massey's connections and brokers who might join us but they had no banking department as such. I left Burnham feeling hopeful and enthused.

Over the ensuing weeks there were many calls back and forth. Massey went to visit Burnham, the two partners I had met came to Atlanta, a deal was struck and a lease for space arranged. Massey was to be the office manager, I to head  Institutional Sales. We were guaranteed a fair salary for a year and were left to hire whomever we could.  The process of informing my retail clients began and my trusted Mary worked night and day sending out transfer forms.  Massey made arrangements for our opening and both of us held many meetings interviewing prospective brokers. Though my focus would be institutional sales I knew I should also retain a retail clientele as an anchor and Burnham encouraged me as well.

I dearly felt great about "Tubby."  He was a man that most everyone in Wall Street had great affection for because he was kind, completely trustworthy, had built a respected firm with talented people and was a shrewd investor. He had a large personal clientele, lived in a well known New York hotel with apartments and his son, Jon, also worked for the firm.  My personal affection for Tubby only grew in the years I remained with the firm.

My personal life, during all of this was deteriorating and several months after we opened our doors Dolly filed for divorce.  

I am getting ahead of myself so let me backtrack. Except for our opening night program, everything that could go wrong did. The office formerly opened on February 1, 1970 (Ten years after I started at Courts & Co.)

OPENING NIGHT, MAYOR HARTSFIELD AND "TUBBY":

Opening night was a home run.  Massey arranged for Atlanta's wonderful Mayor Hartsfield to introduce Tubby to a crowd of our clients and many well wishers among Atlanta's movers and shakers. Hartsfield, in his folksy style, introduced "Tubby," who was Chairman of Burnham, as follows:

'Folks, I have the distinct honor of introducing  Chairman "Tubby" Burnham.  Folks do you know the definition of who a Chairman is?  He is someone too old to do anything meaningful but too rich to be ignored.'

"Tubby" loved the introduction, got into the rhythm of being in the "south," told about the firm and why he was delighted for Burnham and Company to be in Atlanta and made some nice comments about Massey and myself.

Then Walter Stern gave a presentation about our respected research department and I believe Al Sommers, our consulting economist and chief economist, with The Conference Board, gave an economic rundown. 

It was an interesting evening and Massey and I felt those attending came away knowing we were a firm loaded with talent, worth a try and a firm with some heft and depth, which we both felt we were. 

TURMOIL:

Then reality dawned and the dam began to leak, as the rubber hit the road:

Backtracking, earlier,  Massey and I both went to tell McKee and he was gracious, urged us to reconsider though he knew we had gone too far and that turning back was hopeless. Our bridges had been burned and we were just one of the timbers on fire at that time. I felt sorry for McKee who always treated me well.

My $75,000 initial investment in Courts and Company eventually was returned plus interest earned.

Then, a broker with Smith Barney's Tampa Office, wanted to leave. He had gotten in touch, through a savvy Smith Barney broker friend in Atlanta who was widely respected as a competing  institutional salesman, with one of the two Burnham Partners in charge of overseeing  our office. They basically hired him to be my associate. Bruce was a nice person, married, no children, but totally not whom I would have hired.  He was very conservative politically which was OK,  but his personal portfolio, which was decent in terms of wealth, lacked equities. He was also very old fashioned in his mannerisms and had a dire outlook on the market in general. I was handcuffed and did not get positive vibrations after meeting him. I have suspicions, which I have never revealed till now, but I believe Bruce's Smith Barney Atlanta friend planted him with us knowingly.   Here is one of Bruce's oft repeated comments when he wanted to go to the bathroom: "I need to sharpen my skates." UGH.

Second, Forrest, a retail broker,  initially got cold feet and I understand why because of his close relationship with Al Revson. He eventually came aboard and to entice him I made a dumb mistake and let him work with one of the powerhouse institutions. The Chairman of that institution  rightfully resented my "bribing" action.

Third, Massey had hired an exquisite young lady to be our receptionist and one of the two Burnham partners began to have a relationship with her several months later and I had to inform "Tubby." This partner was married, had several children and obviously had good taste in women but word was all over our pitifully populated office and disruptive. From that day forward our relationship was one in which I knew I had to watch my own back.

Fourth, Neither Massey nor I were producing our salary and both the two overseer partners were getting cold feet and beginning discussions that opening the office was a mistake, perhaps to cover themselves and to staunch any further bleeding and dire prospects of success.

I got a letter from "Tubby" in response to one from me assuring him we would prove him proud and not to scuttle the ship which, I acknowledged, was listing.

I have his reply framed which I will copy in part as follows:

 "Dear Dick:

... We are very pleased, in fact excited about our new Atlanta Office and our association with you and your friends. It was awfully nice of Berkley Johnson at the U.S. Trust Company to speak so kindly of us and of me... 

Although there are many clouds on the immediate horizon and some people may think we are crazy to open a new branch office, I look forward to it with considerable optimism...

Sincerely yours, 

I.W. Burnham II "

Fifth, my divorce was taking both it's emotional as well as it's physical toll because I had moved out of the house and I felt horrible no longer seeing the kids on a scheduled basis. I was living in a nearby rented room with a few of my bare bone belongings by way of furniture and a desk chair I was due to receive had not been forthcoming. Furthermore,  I had no paintings on the wall or family pictures. 

To add insult to misery, Maj. Brewster asked me to serve on Woodward Academy's Board. My divorce had not surfaced publicly and I told him about my personal travails, how honored I was to be considered and, were matters different, I would gladly accept but did not believe the timing was propitious and thus, I would not be a suitable choice. Again, I was correct morally to put Woodward's interests before my own but, thinking longer term, I was stupid because clarity would occur in time and I would enhance my own personal standing as a young member of a very prestigious board of a class group of wonderful men and eventually some very prominent women. I also might have made a contribution to the prep military school I came to love.

Sixth, in time, matters settled down, several producers joined our fledgling office, New York's confidence improved, the "affair" matter had been squelched. Lamentably, but understandably, our beautiful receptionist departed and my team began to execute some institutional orders. 

One of the worst days of my career was having to fire Bruce. I replaced him with another broker and eventually hired a third person. I will go into some detail later 

Burnham continued to operate for almost twenty years after the Atlanta office opened. 

I. W. ‘Tubby’ Burnham and Family

I want to devote some brief words to the man I very much respected who gave me a chance to prove my worth.. I hope they will prove informative.

To begin with, "Tubby" sat on the board of Continental Telephone with the elegant movie actress, Dina Merrill, who, at that time, was married to Cliff  Robertson, another well regarded actor.  Dina's mother was Marjorie Merriweather Post  of General Foods fame and fortune.  (Trump now occupies her magnificent home in Palm Beach etc.)

Several year after the Atlanta Office Opened, Continental Telephone was having a board meeting in Atlanta and "Tubby" invited me to have lunch with him and Ms. Merrill. She was sophisticated and as beautiful as in her pictures. 

The name Burnham was originally Bernheim and had been Anglicized. "Tubby's" family wealth, If memory serves me correctly was connected with their involvement in the bourbon industry. "Tubby's" father was a prominent Louisville physician.

After "Tubby" graduated from the Wharton School at the University of Pennsylvania he went to work at the financial firm of Burnham, Herbert, and Company which was co-founded by his uncle, Palmer Burnham – who had previously Americanized his family name. With his grandfather’s approval, I. W. changed not only his last name to reduce any possible confusion, he also dropped his first and middle names choosing to go only by his initials but he retained the ‘II’ suffix. His nickname of ‘Tubby’ was the result of being advised to gain about 50 pounds to help recover from typhoid fever when he was 15. He fully recovered and quickly lost the extra weight but the nickname stuck.) Tubby Burnham expertly managed the Bernheim Trust for many years, even while serving overseas as a pilot during World War II. After his death, his son Jon Burnham, was selected to assume his role in managing the Bernheim Trust.  Jon remains in that position today and is joined as a trustee by his daughter, Debra Burnham Hyman, I. W. Bernheim’s great-great granddaughter. Tubby Burnham donated the funds to create the beautiful Quiet Garden along the shore of Lake Nevin. After their passing, he and his wife, Lawrie, were interred at that location.

I.W. Burnham, II is seated in front with (from left to right) Alexandra Claire Hyman, Jon Burnham, Debra Hyman, and Mimi Burnham photographed at Isaac W Bernheim’s estate in Anchorage, KY circa 1999.


"TUBBY"S OBITUARY

I.W. "Tubby" Burnham, founder of the investment firm Burnham Financial Group, died Monday. He was 93.

Mr. Burnham began his career on Wall Street in 1931, when he joined Burnham, Herman and Co.

He became a partner in 1933 and resigned two years later to form Burnham and Co.

In addition to his work on Wall Street, Mr. Burnham served as vice president of the Securities Industry Association and was an emeritus trustee of the University of Pennsylvania, from which he graduated in 1931.

In World War II, Mr. Burnham served as a pilot and base commander in the Civil Air Patrol and received the U.S. Air Medal and Distinguished Civilian Service Award Medal.

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Again, 6 degrees of separation. "Tubby's" granddaughter, Hilary, is the wife of the present owner (Lowell Kronowitz) of Savannah's respected Levy Jewelry Store.


BBACK TO MY 20 YEARS WITH BURNHAM AND MY

DIVORCE - 1970 - 1990

Dolly had chosen a top notch, tough divorce lawyer which was truly unnecessary since I was prepared to be more than fair based on my financial ability  and concern for the care of my three daughters. 

I chose a friend and client to represent me who felt I would be better served if his partner handled the matter. His partner, Marvin Shoob, was well connected politically. Subsequently,when Shoob became Senator Sam Nunn's campaign treasurer he informed me he no longer could handle my matter. My $5000 advance fee went down the drain.

 I then hired a partner in Powell Goldstein's firm by the name of Frank Love. I should have gone there in the first place because of Wesley Sturges.

Wesley was the retired dean of Yale's Law School and had become dean of The University of Miami Law School and we had developed a great relationship.  (Wesley Alba Sturges ,1893-1962 was a professor of law at the Yale Law School from 1924 to 1961, and served as dean of the law school from 1945 to 1954.)   

Wesley was the father of arbitration law and I took two of his classes. He was a fabulous teacher and his dog, Sean, a beautiful Irish Setter, came to class. Sean could smell fear and he knew when you were asked a question and did not know the answer. He would come to your desk and lay at your feet. Sean and I had an understanding: I was always prepared.

When I departed  to go to Atlanta,Wesley told me to give his regards to Max Goldstein, a founding member of the Powell Goldstein law firm, and Wesley's  Yale Law classmate. I forgot to do so initially but subsequently remembered and that is how I came to know Frank Love.

After I graduated from Law School, Wesley became a small client until his death. He was a treasure, a class act and fabulous teacher. Frank Love subsequently became a client as well.  


I MEET LYNN - 1970

I was lonely and called a client who might know of someone I could have dinner with and he recommended a friend of his and his wife suggested Lynn, a former UGA sorority sister and roommate.  I trusted her judgement over her husband's. On April 15, 1971 I hade a date with Lynn. We went to dinner at my favorite Greek Restaurant (The Iron Horse) where the owner and his wife loved cooking for me. Why there?  Because when I made the date, Lynn, a school teacher, informed me she was going to Europe that summer and Greece was part of her itinerary. After dinner we went to hear Judy Argo, a great local cabaret singer. I was smitten by Lynn's youth, beauty and gorgeous blue/green eyes.

On our second date we had dinner with Bruce and his wife and, compulsive me, knew I had met the girl I was going to marry. We were 15 years apart (me being the older of course.)

I told Frank and he warned I was still married and should  keep a low profile. Bill Rottersman, my then therapist, warned me about rebounds, said no decisions for 6 months and would like to meet Lynn if the relationship moved forward. It did, she agreed to see him and he told me he found her very mature for her age, they had discussed her views of women's lib and Bill not dissuade me from pursuing our budding relationship.

My oldest  daughter, Debra,  was devastated by the impending divorce and wanted to see if she could reknit the relationship and asked her mother and I to get together and try and work things out and we both agreed to meet but with no commitment promised. We met but I could not see myself returning and living on my knees when I was seeking to change and find out who I really was and she was not.

Frank, to his credit, knew the Judge and persuaded him I was prepared to be fair and the plaintiff 's attorney was simply running up a larger bill through delay. The judge agreed with Frank and a settlement was reached along the lines I had initially proposed.

I BECOME ENGAGED - THEN MARRIED 1970 - 1972

I moved to a larger apartment, Lynn left for Europe even though I begged her to stay. Europe was a dream she had to experience. It was the loneliest summer of my life. I wrote her everyday so she would have a reminder waiting for her.

When she finally returned, I arranged, through my father and he through his Congressional Representative, to have Lynn met in New York and squired through customs. Unbeknownst to her, I was waiting at Kennedy. When the State Department Representative called her named and asked her to come forward she said she panicked. We spent two days in New York. I also had arranged, through my father, for dinner at 21 but my stomach was so nervous I could not finish my meal. 

We continued to see each other daily but there was one night when we were having dinner out and she felt I was pressuring her to commit, which I was. The next few days were tense as she sought her own alone time. She finally came around, we became engaged in Birmingham on my father's birthday, November 26, and were married in Savannah, March 5, 1972.

During this time, I now look back and realize I neglected my girls but also during that time my girls got to know Lynn, she them and that helped to some degree because, I believe, they sensed  I was happy. My problem was I did not know whether they were happy. Being an only child, I remain, and probably always will be, too self-focused. I really am a sharing person but I am  too narrowly centered. 

Probably my biggest error was not "inquiring " about their welfare because I felt that could be interpreted as inapproriate and asking my "girls" to "squeal" on their mother. Here is when I should have been compulsive.

Naturally, Lynn's folks were mortified when she said she was dating a much older divorced man with three children ( Debra is some 8 years younger than Lynn.) After we met in Savannah, they were mollified and I could not have had better in-laws. The Savannah community loved Frances and Julius as well they should. Lynn's folks were down to earth, community oriented, middle class people and you always felt comfortable being with them.

   




                                       
Top, Lynn's Dad (Julius),  next Lynn's mother, Frances, next Lynn's mother and sister, Fay, finally Lynn's brother, Staurt, with Frances.


My folks met Lynn's in Atlanta. We hosted our parents at a lovely restaurant owned by the son of the, then, President of Coca Cola. Forio's is no longer in business but it was the perfect setting for our respective parents to meet and everything went well.

Our wedding was on a beautiful March day in Savanna. The azaleas were starting to  bloom and those who attended and had never been to Savannah, were captivated by the city's charm, history and beauty. We were the first wedding in the new AA Synagogue.

We did not invite my kids and, in retrospect, that was a big mistake. We thought we were sparing them from pain. In fact we were excluding them. That has always been a decision that haunts us to this day.

Stuart, Lynn's brother, Dick Harris, a former partner at Courts, Morty Gruber and several other close friends from Atlanta were my groomsmen.

Dick, left Courts and had been head of our OTC trading department. He moved to Santa Fe, New Mexico, acquired the famous Jamison Art Gallery, but at that time could not make a living. Had he been able to hold out a few years longer he would have become wealthy.  Dick left Santa Fe and rejoined another brokerage firm, moved to their New York Office as head of trading. Several months later he was visited one evening by an old girl friend and upon her leaving his wife shot and killed him and then turned the gun on herself. Their two young sons were sleeping in their own beds and subsequently Dick's dentist bother raised them in Mississippi. Dick's wife was known to be a volatile red head. To this day I do not know all the facts of what "triggered" her.

My closest Court's partner friendships were Al Revson, Sonny Ellis and Dick Harris. Dick and I had a special interest in art and that interest grew over time and we became very close and thus another reason for being in our wedding as one of my groomsmen.

In terms of my work,  I will highlight some key events:

1) As noted, the Atlanta Burnham office was doing well. New York was pleased and no longer visiting. Then another totally unexpected and tragic event occurred. Massey was on a trip, returned and had a sudden and massive heart attack at the Atlanta Airport and died. Obviously we were all shocked. Massey was an intense fellow but in good health, we thought. His position, as office manager, was taken by a broker we had hired, Jerome Dattel. Jerry was bright, very shrewd and  desirous of movig up the ladder.Though I liked him I never really trusted him because he always saw me as a threat, which I never was.

JUDY HARTLEY AND THE MEGA YEARS _ 1973- 1980

2) My own institutional business was improving and I decided it was time to hire a female so I went to Emory and interviewed several candidates and offered a job to Judy Hartley. Judy was married, and soon to receive her MBA degree. I came dressed casually in slacks, a Blazer and a tie and began the interview by telling her I was going to ask her questions that were against federal laws and if she wanted to end the meeting I understood. Perhaps curiosity made her respond. She wanted to proceed. I did this in order to learn about her and whether she was suited for the job, something stupid laws prevent you from doing.

I asked her did she intend to have a baby within 5 years, if she earned more than her husband would that harm their marriage, would she be willing to travel and what level of earnings she would like to reach in five years. She replied she could postpone children, earning more than her husband was not an issue, she would travel and her desire to earn was open ended. She also informed me she had an opportunity to go with Goldman and work in their Memphis Office and my heart sank because Goldman was far more prestigious than Burnham at that time and I told her so. We agreed she would let me know in a few days.

 I left with my fingers and eyes crossed because I intuitively knew she was right. Why? She was bright, straight forward in her responses, attractive, obviously female and more women were entering the brokerage industry and I knew I could never accomplish what she could in terms of relating to women though I did have several female institutional clients and we got along well.

To my delight and surprise, Judy accepted my offer. I asked her why and she said she wanted to stay in Atlanta, never met anyone so off the wall like me and it was either going to be fun or a disaster. Judy remained with me for over 25 years. She remains married to Michael, has two handsome sons and now is a grandmother. Judy and I will always be there for each other. They now own a lovely beach house at Jekyll and Lynn and I visited them pre-Covid. Her wonderful father joined us for lunch. Post Covid she wants us to stay with them for a weekend. Judy and Lynn love to compare notes about quirky me. She is part of my extended family and one of my dearest girl friends.
Judy Hartley

Before I move on a few additional comments about Judy. She is exceedingly thoughtful and always remembers my birthday. For my 88th, she sent me a book she read and loved and enclosed a card that was endearing.  

She also threw a surpise 65th  birthday party for me inviting our institutional friends.  Knowing my political inclinations she decorated the room as if I was campaigning for president.  The decorations included signs saying "Dick is my pick,"  "Dick for President," and straw hats with slogans etc. The problem was  I wanted to go home and she kept giving me reasons why I needed to come. The clincher was that Abby Cohen was in town.  When I entered the room expecting to see Abby, I saw Lynn and 35 or more institutional friends and clients. I still have some of the decorations in my 'man cave.'

On another brithday,  she took all of my memos and had them bound in chronological order. I have that in a desk drawer, as well.

That's Judy!
  

3) Judy, Bill Stewart who I hired to replace Bruce, and I made a good team. She worked with him as well as me and our business grew. Eventually Burnham, as noted above, entered  the Drexel Burnham, Milken Years.  Milken came aboard  and subsequently we became a very hot and envied  firm. The firm instituted a fancy bonus weekend for institutional sales persons based on their production exceeding a million dollars in annual commissions. Couples were firm guests at what was called The Mega Club and Lynn and I were invited beginning in 1983 through 1987.

Lynn always called those the "Mega Years" because the firm treated us like royalty.


Obviously the office had finally settled down, we were reasonably staffed with some decent retail brokers and I finally had an associate, on the institutional side, who was more to my liking.

AMY, DEBRA COME TO LIVE WITH US  1975 - 1976

From a personal standpoint, Amy, my second daughter, wanted to come live with us and, in Georgia, a child can elect once they are 14. Amy did come a little earlier in 1974. Debra came the summer of her freshman year in college and Lisa, my third daughter, remained with her mother. Our son, Daniel, was born in 1977 and our daughter, Abby, in 1980. Thus, Lynn became responsible for two teenagers several  years after we were married, at 26 years of age., in addition to raising two of her/our own.

Lynn's folks were wonderful "grandparents." Basically, I believed we were a generally compatible family but I also knew there remained scars because of the divorce. Lamentably, as I noted earlier, I never sat the girls down and individually asked them to open up and let me know what was going on in their lives and that was a serious failure on my part. I am not a "prier" type but, in this case, I should have been.

I was busier than ever because of our expanding business and the demands of our expanding family. 

Lynn was fabulous in my eyes, still is and always will be, and I was one contented soul as I turned 40. 

My own folks loved Lynn and were always thankful she and her own family came into our collective lives. 

Lynn and I celebrated my folk's 50th Anniversary in Atlanta and invited their  friends who had moved from Birmingham to Atlanta, and friends my folks had come to know and liked as a result of their many Atlanta visits. Included that evening, was my former psychiatrist, Bill and his wife, Lena, Rottersman. We had become socially close and he became a client after I finished my sessions. That evening I roasted my parents. Like MLK, I felt free at last. I truly rose to the occasion and hit all the notes so much so my father probably wet his pants laughing and my mother was under the table totally embarrassed. 

I began by saying I finally met my father when my mother introduced him to me at my Bar Mitzvah and it went from there. I held back nothing but was not cruel just insightful and hilarious, if I say so myself. I still have a copy of that "roast" and from time to time Lynn and I do a re-read. I should have it placed in my coffin.

THE MILKEN CONFERENCE 1986?

6) Judy and I attended a conference in New York around, I believe,1986, at which Michael Milken spoke to the institutional sales department. Michael graduated from Wharton, as had "Tubby," and was working at Drexel when we acquired the Drexel firm. He was a math whiz and was trading depressed bonds. He convinced "Tubby" there were significant profits to be made in trading them. Burnham, as I noted earlier, was not an aggressive trading firm but simply a conduit through which orders were executed much like Courts.

Milken had been allowed to move to California so he could have two breakfast meetings before the market opened, it was where he wanted to live with his family and, because he had created our main profit center, Fred Joseph agreed. That proved a bad move because, with Milken out of sight, so to speak, the firm lost control of the fiefdom he established. My only contact with Milken was when he approached me through Gary Winnick. Gary wanted to offer "Junk Bonds" to our institutional clients. I was circumspect because I always believed the money managed by our southern based institutions was slow moving and very conservative except for a few aggressive clients. I called it managing "moss gathering money."

Winnick said he wanted me to let the California Group work with several clients he named whom he thought would be receptive and they would credit us with 1/2 the resulting commissions. I had no reason to say no because: 

a) he could be right
b) he was willing to have his people do the work and 
c) we would be credited with half of any commissions.

For several months Winnick proved he was correct and we enjoyed the fruits of California's "junk bond trading"  efforts. Then the commissions stopped and I enquired why and Winnick said they had decided to keep what they were creating. Winnick has become a billionaire in his own right since leaving Drexel but he is someone I would never shake hands with because I would have to count my fingers. He was the personification of the type Milken mostly hired and associated. Bright and aggressive.  

Back to the conference Judy and I attended.

At the Conference, Judy and I sat near the back in sight of Milken's body guard.  He looked the beefy part. Milken was full of himself and spent much of his time berating the institutional sales attendees and told us basically 'I can go the bathroom, come back to my desk and do more business than all of you combined.' He actually stated our firm was becoming a "Dynasty." I was not shocked. I simply thought what a pompous, arrogant ass.

THE BOESKY EXPLOSION - 1986 -1989

I returned to Atlanta and it was a few days before The Jewish New Year. I sat down and wrote Fred
Joseph a letter wishing him and his family a Happy New Year. Then I gave him my thoughts about the "Milken Conference" and wrote that I was just a southern boy who could not relate to our becoming a dynasty unless it was the TV program starring the beautiful Linda Evans. I do not remember  how many days passed before the Ivan Boesky explosion hit the financial world. I never received a reply from Fred Joseph.

As noted previously, the firm had become a powerhouse and we were allowed to purchase stock at book. The amount offered was related to your title. I had been given some meaningless fancy title like Exec. Vice President and eventually had accumulated $90,000 in stock at cost which eventually became worth over $1,300,000 by the time of the Milken/Boesky explosion. A few smart opportunists redeemed their stock and, loyal me, did nothing because I loved my firm and had no proof the Fed's were right. I subsequently received $300,000 when the firm's eventual liquidation occurred.

As for Milken, he was subsequently diagnosed with prostate cancer and upon his release from jail began what has come to be known as The Milken Institute. During his own legal issues, he shielded his brother, Lowell, by taking all the blame. His organization funds cancer research, hosts an annual investment gathering and he is reputedly worth $5 billion. In America, even a felonious player can return to an elite status through capitalism. Michael also caused some 9,000 plus innocent people grief, their jobs and our famous food analyst, allegedly committed suicide because of his involvement in a merger that was soon to be investigated.

As law suits and pressure  mounted the retail division of the firm folded. However,  the institutional sales and research departments continued to function. The Atlanta Office's business actually improved year to year because, I assume, our loyal clients stepped up to the the plate and wanted to show they knew we were not connected in any way with Milken. I will never forget their decency, generosity and support.

In December of 1989, Lynn, Daniel, Abby and yours truly, hired a sail boat, crewed by Oliver De Ligny, a handsome native of St Thomas. We sailed for a week around the Virgin and British islands. While on the boat one evening, I heard through Oliver's short wave radio, Drexel-Burnham had agreed to pay a huge fine ($650 million. I turned to Oliver and asked whether he needed another person to help him crew. The firm closed all it's doors in February of 1990.  Meanwhile, we were committed to hosting Daniel's Bar Mitzvah in March and  I had just lost my job. UGH!

It should be noted, virtually everyone who worked in Drexel Burnham's Research and Institutional Sales Department, who wanted to continue working, received job offers. For instance, Merrill Lynch's Director of Research was a former Drexel Tobacco Analyst. Abby Cohen became a partner in Goldman Sachs and so forth. Many of Milken's crew became Wall Street Giants like Leon Black, Steve Feinberg etc,

Neal Allen, one of my institutional clients and a founding member of Invesco, offered to arrange a meeting with the manager of Goldman Sachs'  Richmond Office. However, I declined because I did not want to disrupt my family and never gave thought Goldman might open an Atlanta Office which they did subsequently. I simply assumed the Richmond Office Manager might hire me to service the South from Richmond and that was unacceptable. Neal remains a very dear friend and fellow memo reader to this day.

As noted throughout this autobiography, I have had the distinct pleasure of meeting, knowing, working with some truly intelligent and interesting people. These are a few anecdotes about three in particular.

At Drexel Burnham we had several outside  consultants:


Al Sommers was the Economist for The Conference Board and an economic advisor to our firm. Al taught me how to spell inflation. We made many travels through the territory and he was generally correct in his forecasts. Al had a droll sense of humor and loved tennis. Sadly, I never got to play him.

Al knew I had contacts within the Carter Administration and asked could I arrange an invite down to The Pond House where there was going to be an economic Pow Wow as the Administration began selecting members and advisers.

I arranged such for Al through Charles Kirbo. Mr. Kirbo was a senior partner in a very prestigious Atlanta Law Firm and, in my opinion, was a surrogate father type to Jimmy Carter.

Al attended the meeting and on his way back to New York called to thank me and I asked would he be joining the Administration in some capacity. He replied he would not because they were totally misguided when it came to understanding what was needed. I should have paid more attention to Al's observations and sold stocks and bought Government Bonds which eventually paid, if memory serves me correctly, over 10%.

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Abby Cohen worked at The Federal Reserve as an analyst before joining Burnham. She was very bright and became our market strategist. Judy and I traveled with her on her first trip south to speak with our clients. Abby is short, sort of matronly and never used much makeup. She also had a somewhat monotone delivery. Because Judy was of the same sex we agreed it would be better if she chatted with Abby to give her some "presentation pointers."

When our firm closed their doors, Abby was hired by Goldman to do for them what she had for us. Within less than a year, Abby became the public voice of Goldman, was very bullish even through several severe market corrections. Abby is still at Goldman, a partner and, though no longer enjoys as high a public profile, continues to do her thing.

The reason I mention this is in psychiatry there is an expression called "association with the aggressor." While Abby was at Drexel, she was well received among our client base, respected for her obvious talent but when she joined Goldman their reputation rubbed off on her and she became a "genius."

No doubt, at Goldman, Abby had access to, perhaps, more information and contacts but it is interesting how Wall Street reacts when one is with a more prestigious firm. Sheep are sheep wherever.

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Dave Hawkins was a native of Australia, one of their Olympic swimming champions and an accounting professor at The Harvard Business School. He was a consultant to our firm on corporate accounting matters and a consultant to G.E. I never will forget Dave said G.E had so many accounting pockets it could always beat the "whisper number" when quarterly reporting time came around, of course until G.E no longer had earnings. It is fascinating how so many Wall Street mighty fall from grace like Polaroid, Eastman Kodak, Sears etc.

I mention this because, while David was highlighting how clever G.E was accounting-wise ,the Welch Years came back to haunt them. Far too many listed companies break their necks trying to meet Wall Street short term reporting expectations and forecasts and take their eye off spending on research and staying abreast of changing markets and remaining competitive etc. They endanger their very existence for fear of reporting lower earnings and thus, impacting their stock prices.

In America far too much emphasis is placed on short term thinking. We like fast food, fast cars, and lose sight of the benefit of long term thinking and strategizing.

Asians take a longer term perspective and because China is a dictatorship, I worry that our own political system does not permit such and this places us at many  distinct disadvantages.

G.E has stabilized and actually may be on its way back but it will not be like it was for decades, if ever.

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THE OPPENHEIMER YEARS BEGIN - 1980 - 2002

It must be Oppenheimer was bashert (Yiddish for "meant to be.") As you may recall, I had visited them some 20 years before and now they had an Atlanta Office and, institutionally speaking, were covering the territory from New York. I never knew their salesperson but was told he was a lavish entertainer. I never was because I put service ahead of entertaining. Socially speaking, I am awkward in a large crowd and also am not a drinker nor do I talk sports. I am not a man's man when it comes to repartee'. Neither am I a lady's man. Socially I am a quiet misfit and prefer smaller crowd interaction and settings. I am more a one on one type. Ask my dear friend Charlie Bourland and Minister Jim Giddens, among others.

Bill Stewart, to his undying credit, had quickly made contact with Oppenheimer through a mutual friend. Bill and I went to New York and interviewed with the key principals. I was asked to meet with the head of their trading department. I was nervous because I needed employment, knew they had a salesperson covering the territory and hoped my sales record was better than his. Also, we had the cost of our son's Bar Mitzvah. This was an emotional time to be unemployed and committed to an event of this kind. 

I forget the man's name but he was a crude, tough New York Desk Trader, suspenders, cigar  and all. After the meeting, I felt even more uncomfortable because I am sure he saw me through the lens of a vulgar New Yorker type and I did not come across tough enough. He certainly outdid me in the "F" word department because it laced every sentence he uttered. Also, I doubt he had ever been south where public vulgarity, in those years, was unacceptable as was intimidation. He was right out of central casting..

I did pass and we moved our Institutional Sales Department  into Oppenheimer the following week. I felt I had broken a record for the briefest unemployment.. I was considered the head of the local institutional department and we brought everyone with us. Meanwhile, Opco planted one of their own from New York to keep an eye on us.  I will always be thankful to Bill Stewart for his efforts.

Parenthetically, the head trader I interviewed with in New York was eventually fired because the firm
probably came to realize he was certified insane. I never inquired but was not surprised.

By now, Judy had earned her own book of clients so we interacted less and she had more than passed the five year no child test and was now pregnant with her second son.

I digress but after 5 years Judy had approached me and reminded me of her pledge. I jokingly told her if Michael could not get her pregnant I would offer my services. After all that was, I felt, the least I could do in view of her keeping her word. Fortunately for us both, she became pregnant and I arranged for her to work from home if she would keep that between us. My standing with her female clients went up and to this day Judy always graciously reminds me of what I did. She embellishes what I actually did because she earned every bit of what she accomplished and, in doing so, validated my own judgment and decision to hire her.

Those were the days when men and women were "friends" and could have fun together with their bantering. I am glad I am not in the job market anymore. Calling women "shug" is not in your best interest and I refuse to break the habit.

If women want to or need to engage in a "man's world" they are somewhat disadvantaged if they also want to have a family and so is society for two reasons, in my humble opinion. (Lynn challenges this,) First, as noted earlier, children's personality is developed by the time they are three and generally being raised by a nanny is culturally and emotionally not preferable. Call me old fashioned. Second, our society has enough problems caused by absentee motherhood. Look at what progressive liberals have done to the black family. 

In my case, I probably got too much "mothering," did not have a sibling to talk and share my views. I worked through most of my psychological issues intellectually speaking and though some scars remain, and probably always will, I am a happy and a blessed man. I have done more than I ever thought I would or could, met some fabulous people along the way, landed on my feet after a sad first marriage and have an unbelievable cadre of off spring and family members. What more can I ask other than I wish I was able to undo some of the unintended emotional damage to my kids, could run and get to my opponent's tennis shots, but, even there, I have Dr. Carl Savory to thank for at least returning me to the courts. He and his lovely Carol have graced our lives, as have all my Savannah doctor/friends from DeHaven, to Zoller, to Wilson, to Hope, to Luskey, to Collins, to Elkins, to Michigan, to Rydzak to Brainerd and now to Lorenz.

I have not been the most attentive and sensitive father and that is one of my greatest failings and certainly I have short changed Lynn, as a husband, in that department. We share comparable values, a loving relationship but are as different as can be in most every other way. Ask her and, if you have the time, she will enumerate.

I always tell her I want to leave her something to look forward to from her next husband. She tells me one has probably been enough.

The OPCO years were productive financially. I helped arrange one merger at Burnham and one at Opco but the fun times of the Courts & Co. years were gone. Nor did I have the latitude to be as creative as I often wanted but neither am I a bold risk taker though I have done plenty of dumb things. The Manager of The Atlanta Opco Office treated me kingly but I never loved the firm as I had Courts and Burnham. I was grateful to be employed. I worked hard. I earned well but Opco's New York Culture was more like that of Bear Stearns, highly aggressive. Furthermore, the person in charge of my department from New York was a real jerk who managed through intimidation. I spent my years at OPCO having a 9 to 5, smile and dial, travel type job though I worked much longer hours.

So, though I stayed at OPCO, in their Atlanta office, from 1990 to 2003, I always felt I was just punching a clock, putting in my time, earning a living so all my kids had three squares and I could meet my financial obligations. 

Also, Mary Penuel, my trusted associate, had retired and she could never be replaced. I had two other secretaries who were so different and could never measure up but how could they? I repeat, they don't make Mary's anymore. Perhaps The Woman's Lib Movement killed them and I ain't sure a broken glass ceiling made "America Great Again." Oh well.

Family-wise, during this entire period, we expanded. Debra married Martin, Amy married Steve, Lisa Married Martin . My/our three daughters wisely married sequentially and all of our sons-in-law are different, productive, good provider husbands and fathers and grandfathers. They, in turn, expanded our family by giving us wonderful grandchildren, Elliot, Emma, Kevin, Emily and Henry. All but Henry have married and he now has a girlfriend, Jessica, whom we have met only through photos and Zoom but she seems lovely.

Kevin married a lovely red headed cowgirl from Wyoming and have given us CJ, and Emily married a terrific high school sweetheart named Landon who I called Brandon for a while. How lucky Amy and Steve are because all their kids live in Louisville. Elliot married a Californian who has a PHD and they are freezing in Chicago. They have given us Olivia and Leah. Emma just married the tallest member of the family named Scott who is 6' 5" and they live in New York.

Then of course we have Daniel and Abby.

Daniel is married to a lovely young lady, Tamara (Tammy), and they have given us Stella and Max so the world will have to contend with another generation of Berkowitzes. Then we round it all out with Abby who married Brian and they have given us Dagny and Blake. We are picking up Dagny and Blake, Christmas Day, 2020, in Jacksonville and bringing them back to The Landings for R and R and returning them to Orlando so we can go to dinner and celebrate their mommy and daddy's 40th mutual birthdays. Abby is a whole day older than Brian. 

Rounding out family-wise we also have 8 furry grandchildren and I have put out the word, when I turn 90, if I make it, I want a pooch. Lynn said: "who is going to take care of it because I'm vacating the premises."

One of my greatest regret is we all live far apart but maybe that is why we remain a close family.

BACK TO OUR ATLANTA DAYS -  1972

After Lynn and I were married we lived at Middleton Arms Apartments on Buford Highway and after Abby was born we moved into a condo on Ashford Dunwoody. We loved living there because it was a small neighborhood, had a pool and tennis court but it was poorly constructed. I offered to hire a special law firm, be the point man if the community wanted to sue the builder and banks, to correct structural changes, as long as my neighbors would not interfere. They agreed and I and our attorneys worked well together. I kept my neighbors updated every month and more when there was specific news or important decisions to be made. The main issue was the external brick walls were pulling away because they had not been properly tied. After several years, we recovered enough to have scutcheons reattach the walls and pay our attorneys.

It was the only legal matter I ever have been involved in and because of the delays, on the part of the defendants, it re-confirmed why I could never have been happy practicing law. I like action and am impatient - DUH. 

We subsequently moved into our last and only Atlanta home which was up the street on Epping Forest. We lived there until we moved to Savannah in May of 2003. Epping was one of the best moves we could have made. Lots of friends, kids and, for Atlanta, a fairly settled community with not a lot of transferees etc. As a result we had a dammed lake abutting Oglethorpe University, a neighborhood club full of tennis courts and a great swimming pool where the kids had swim meets etc.

Best of all, we had neighbors which became extended family. This coming summer we will go to N Litchfield Beach for the 43rd time with our Atlanta Family who are cherished. Our kids all grew up together. In fact as I write this we just returned from a glorious week of good food, conversation, tennis and fabulous weather.
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Dolly never re-married. She  passed away in 2014 from cancer. I attended her funeral. We never could narrow our extreme differences. I shall always regret any suffering/heartache I caused her.
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In 2002, we purchased a lot at The Landings on which we built our house. I actually designed it and we hired an Atlanta decorator ( Nancy Cohen Eichel) who helped remodel and decorate our Atlanta home. Nancy took my rough sketch and made some modifications. Basically she changed the direction of the stairs leading to the upstairs in the kitchen and scoped out room sizes. Lynn and I had two thoughts in mind. We wanted our home suitable for art we had collected and I wanted the entrance to partly resemble the Rittenhouse Square Hotel Lobby. Why? Because one evening I walked past the hotel and saw a huge beautifully tuxedoed man walking down the narrow lobby. It was Charles Laughton going to one of his readings and I became smitten with that image.

I had previously discussed, with Oppenheimer, moving to Savannah and encouraged them to let me open a small home office and they agreed. They authorized me to set up shop in my home in a dedicated room and also gave thought to opening a branch office. Then the market turned "further south" and they chose not to do so because of  conditions in 2003. Having relinquished most of my institutional accounts, my level of production plummeted and we parted ways. I retained 15 accounts which I moved to Schwab and proceeded to manage money for some long time retail clients including family members. The number of 15 accounts was the legal limit if you wanted to avoid becoming a registered advisor and going through all the regulatory issues and costly  structural burdens.

Eighteen years later I am still running some client and family money and have a few less accounts. An average day is a combination of reading market literature, books, playing tennis, writing my infamous memos and LTE's to the local paper. When I first moved to town I had lunch with the SMN editorial page editor (Tom Barton) and asked would he let me write a column, at no cost. He said he would let me write some LTE's and would see. He was true to his word and he posted virtually every letter I sent. Tom was an outstanding editor and a gifted writer in his own right. The local paper is not what it used to be and Tom is retired, remarried and enjoying life. I truly miss both him, his thinking and writing.

I also began a JEA Speaker Series which lasted 5 years, after which Lynn put her foot down. Then I arranged obtaining President Day Dinner Speakers as part of the Skidaway Island Republican Club for seven years for which I received The Eckberg Award. I had some wonderful speakers like Bernie Marcus,  Lt. Col. Allen West, Kim Strassel, John Bolton, Elliott Abrams and others.

Lynn and I no longer travel extensively, as we had earlier and what travel we do is mostly family oriented. We especially love and look forward to visits when family can come to The Landings as Debra, Martin, Elliot, Elizabeth, Olivia and Leah just did.

At 88, I remain as active as my limbs allow and am not interested in sitting around waiting to die though I know I will at some point.

Lynn was initially reluctant to retire to Savannah and wanted to try a year of retirement in Atlanta but I objected for two reasons. First, it was time to be closer to her parents in Savannah and second, Atlanta is a young person's town, choked with traffic and I knew it would not suit my retirement style. She relented and now admits I was both right and the timing was propitious because we had several years to be with her parents before they both passed away. We both miss our departed parents and recently did a photo walk through when Debra was here.

Also, The Landings is special, the people even more so and we cherish the many friendships we have made since moving to Savannah.

My next project is to probe the interests of my 5 older grandchildren, get to know them better and become a closer grandfather.

Finally, I will end PART ONE by recapping some of the activities I have been involved in, our travels and special interests during my adult life but in no particular order:

BOARD  SERVICE AND  EXTRACURRICULAR ACTIVITIES 

1) I was a member of Bush 41's Presidential Finance Committee after which he selected me to become a Board member of The President's Commission on White House Fellows. I served from '90 - '92.

2) I served on the advisory board of The Woodrow Wilson International Center for Scholars from '97 - '98.

3) I served on The Board of Advisors of St John's College from '95 - 2001. St. John's is the Great Books College and third oldest College in America. Francis Scott Key Established the Alumni Association. I celebrated my 65th birthday in 1998 by inviting a close number of friends to come to the Santa Fe Campus of St John's and spend an extended weekend discussing "What It Means To Be A Good Citizen." With faculty tutor assistance, I put together select readings including Washington's Farewell Address, Lincoln's Gettysburg Address, readings from Ecclesiastes, Federalist Paper Number 10, etc. The topic I chose is one that has always meant a great deal.

Thursday we began with an elegant catered dinner at the President's Home. Formal discussions started on Friday followed by another beautiful catered dinner in the fabulous Zaplin Lampert Gallery on Canyon Road. Saturday the discussions ended and everyone went their way "touristing" and then joined for dinner that evening followed by listening to Nat King Cole's daughter, performing at a local hotel. All departed on Sunday.

Sadly, several of the attendees have passed but all enjoyed that unusual experience. I am in contact with those who remain.

4) I have been on The Advisory Board of the State of Georgia Museum of Art (GMOA) in Athens for many years and remain so currently.

My initial visit with Lamar Dodd, the outstanding regional artist and Dean of  UGA's Art School, led to my being asked to serve on the GMOA Board of Advisors.  Conequently, I have met some wonderful people and have developed a close relationship with our gifted and nationally prominent Director, Bill Eiland. 

Meanwhile, over the years,  I made sure to introduce Abby and Daniel to Lamar.  To spend time with him was like sitting at the feet of Art History.  He had studied with some of the  "greats" of that period and Lynn had actually taken a course from him. He was buried on Yom Kippur and I told my Rabbi it was more important for me to attend his funeral than come to services and I did just that and he understood

5) I have served on The Savannah Jewish Education Alliance Investment Foundation Board for several years and remain so currently.

In 2007 I was selected as The JEA Board Member of The Year for starting The JEA Speaker Series.

6) I served on the Skidaway Island Republican Board for 7 Years, from 2012-2019 and, as previously noted, obtained 7 well known speakers for our annual fund raising dinner.

7) In 2012 I merged my writing skills with my political thoughts and wrote an anti- Dr Spock booklet, which my friend Charlie Bourland snidely calls a pamphlet. It was entitled: "A Conservative Capitalist Offers Eleven Lessons and A Bonus lesson, For Raising America's Youth Born and Yet To Be Born!"

My granddaughter Emma, was my illustrator, and Lisa, my third daughter, was my editor, my Canadian Computer Guru, Paul Laflamme, helped me market the work through Amazon. The purpose was to raise money for The Wounded Warrior Project which I later learned takes about a third of all donations for marketing and administrative purposes. After defraying Paul's cost and a modest sum to Emma and Lisa and Amazon's marketing costs, I only raised some $300 plus dollars.

I believe the "booklet" is still available through Amazon. Every mother in America would be wise to read it and if they did. and adhered to the advice.  America would be better off as would their offspring.

8) In 2012 my infamous daily memo list included some 200 plus potential readers and today the list of readers has grown to slightly over 600. I am pleased to note some of my readers are very prominent national writers in their own right. When Bernie Marcus spoke here he made the generous comment, which I know is not true, that if the audience read my memos they need not read a lot of other mass media papers etc.

9) Lynn and I were founding members of The University of Georgia's President's Club as well as The Booth Museum of Western Art in Cartersville, Georgia. (Lynn attended and graduated from UGA.)

10) While living in Atlanta, during the period of the OLYMPIC'S, I was asked to prevent The Blackburn Park Master Plan Commission from locating the Olympic Tennis Facility in our neighborhood and was successful.

The reason being outlandish/disruptive  traffic during the Olympics and post them we feared it would turn into a concert venue like Chastain.

11) Served on the Advisory Board of Savannah's Spine and Sports Company .

TRAVELS AND ART TOURS

1) Military service in France and  being stationed in the LOIRE Valley allowed for extensive travel in France.

2) CRUISES  

Various Caribbean trips 

The Azores and Portugal

Spain to Venice including French and Italian ports 

Several French Country Waterway Barge Trips in France. One with The Bourland's.

Took five grandchildren and Abby to China

Took Abby to Australia and New Zealand

Also took Abby to Japan to visit Daniel and Tamara when he was in charge of The United States

Pavilion of The World's Fair in Nagoya

Traveled to Bali, Indonesia, Viet Nam and the Orangutan Leakey Preserve sailing to the Komodo Island

to view the Dragons

An Alaskan Cruise and fished for and caught Halibut

Several Disney Cruises, one with our 5 grandchildren and Abby

Flew to Tahiti and cruised the Marquesas Islands aboard The Aranui, a dual

passenger/cargo vessel.

Several trips to Israel, including one with Daniel and Abby

A private crewed sail to several Turkish Islands preceded by a trip to Turkey proper with Daniel, Abby and Lynn's brother and his wife  (Stuart and Eva.)

The Florida Keys 

Crewed sailing trip out of Savannah around Georgia Barrier Islands but, due to

inclement weather, never got off  the boat with Steve and Amy, Debra and Martin 


Various family cruises and one in particular which included our 5 children, various spouses and children and Tammy's folks, ie. Debra and Martin, Amy and Steve, Lisa and Martin, Abby and Brian, Daniel and Tamara and her father and mother (David and Anica)

Another cruise with Frances and Julius and all their grandchildren, Stuart and Eva and ourselves

The one trip I always wanted to take was a freighter voyage but am past the age restriction limit. Oh well, you can't do everything. The Aranui was a compromise. - 100 passengers and freight

CAR TRIPS

Trips  by car remains my favorite wasy to  travel . America is a great country, plenty of diverse scenery, you don't eat yourself sick and you get opportunities, if you take the blue highways (not expressways) to meet people, have interesting experiences etc. Some of our most memorable moments have occurred this way, particularly in New Mexico which became a virtual art tour.

Drove coast to coast (43 days) taking the southern route to include Louisiana, Texas, Arizona, California, Nevada, New Mexico, Oklahoma, Tennessee, Alabama before returning to Savannah.

Huntsville, Alabama Space Museum with Daniel and Abby

Extensive drive through Mississippi, Louisiana, returning to Savannah by way of Alabama's Gulf Coast,

Florida's Panhandle and finally the Okefenokee's

Toured North Carolina's Outer Bank area

Motored throughout Normandy and Brittany after a barge trip ending in Alsace

Motored to the French Riviera and Provence 

Began in Prague, flew to Switzerland and made an extensive drive through Italy

The Cody Dude Ranch in Wyoming with Daniel after which we drove around Colorado and Utah.

Frontier Days in Wyoming after which we drove to Montana and stayed at Glacier National Park with Daniel and Abby

Mountain Sky Dude Ranch in Montana and rafted in Yellowstone with Daniel and Abby

Abby's 21st birthday in Mesa Verde, stayed at Kelly's Place in Cortez Colorado with Abby, Brian, Debra and family.

Many travels to Michigan to be with Debra and family, including The Upper Peninsula, Harbor Springs, Petoskey. Travers City etc. and Saugatuck by ourselves

While on the Board of St John's we did many trips to Santa Fe and Annapolis   

Toured entire east coast of Wisconsin's Door County, including Madison and Milwaukee with the Bourland's and side trip to Chicago to visit Lisa and Martin.

San Francisco with Amy. 

Maine drive around including Cape Cod. 

Family celebration trips to Calloway Gardens, Pine Mountain Georgia, near Warm Springs, a highly recommended place for golfers, family vacations and lovers of good "suthren" cooking and garden fresh vegetables etc.

SOME EXCEPTIONAL TRIPS

To celebrate Lynn's 60th and my own 75th, to Costa Rica for a family trip in 2008- everyone, except Daniel and Tamara, who were opening their bakery, came -turned out to be a memorable trip and proved that our family could get along fine but "yes, why not", our hotel, "Si Como No " was fabulous.  

A special trip was my fiftieth reunion (2004) back to Penn. My fraternity brother, Victor Barnett, was Chairman of  Burberry and he had his staff plan the entire weekend beginning with a private tour of The Barnes Collection, followed by an elegant dinner with band and dancing. Only three of our class could not attend. One of our members had died, several more were in poor health.

Victor arranged for a wonderful photograph of the attendees and frankly considering our ages, most were in their early70's, we looked pretty damn good.

The fact that I had dropped out of the fraternity at the beginning of my Junior year was of no concern.

Several years later I hosted a comparable gathering in Savannah.  Attendance was about half of that in Philadelphia but all had a great time and, if memory serves me correctly, none had ever been to Savannah.

Camping trip to Cumberland Island

Trip to Gatlinburg, Tennessee

TWO SPECIAL ANNUAL EVENTS

As noted previously, our last home in Atlanta was near The Peachtree Golf Course. Several of our neighbors became extended family and we began to be included in an annual summer trip to North Litchfield Beach, South Carolina. Over the years many changes have taken place but initially we, the Hamilton's, and Davidson's rented a large house to accommodate not only our own children but also each could bring a guest.

In the morning as many as 22 would pile out and  it reminded me of circus clowns exiting a small car.

Today, we, the Majeska's, Hamilton's and other couples are still going strong. We rent a smaller home, our children have all gone off and gotten married and have their own kids so it is just parents 43 years later. The guys play tennis, each family cooks one night and then we go out for dinner the remaining nights. These are treasured times and memories.

The second special annual trip is when Lynn's mother decided to rent a house for two weeks at Tybee so Lynn's brother's family and our's could come together with the "first cousins." Over the years, Lynn says Frances rented over 13 different homes and I will not dispute her. When Lynn's folks passed away we kept up the tradition but only for one week and we have been in the same house for some 10 or more years. Frankly, we have outgrown the house but the owners have also become family, are so accommodating and flexible we don't have the heart to make a change. All family members are welcome. Lynn's brother's family no longer participate as their own children take them out west to Colorado and Washington State. We have years of photos by Lynn, Abby, Martin D, Dick Hochman and professionals. Again these memories become treasures.

Lynn does most all the cooking, we treat the kids to an evening out and during the day everyone goes to the beach. In the evening we play Left, Right, Center and do complex jig-saw puzzles. I try to watch the news but the "din" is too strong. Every year the same routine, same dishes, same activities and that is how you create traditions.

As for me, I get "nachas" (pleasure) watching the grandchildren grow and relate to each other. I still am not good or know how to get down on their level and ask questions as Lynn does and physically, were I to try, I would still be there.

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Earlier, in my travels with my three girls, we spent a lot of time going to Florida, some with my folks, mainly to Destin, Sarasota and Long Boat Key. As previously noted,  when I was at Courts I took my girls with Dolly to Cape Cod and drove home with Debra to Atlanta.


MISCELLANEOUS OTHER INTERESTS

Lynn and I have been  art and object collectors and always try to find something of our liking that we can afford when we travel as well as impulse purchases. We also enjoy antiquing always looking for "finds." Our collection is eclectic in nature and includes American works on paper and oils, native America Pots and Beadwork, Asian objects, African masks and carvings, Southwestern Art, including Kachinas and baskets, as well as a few furniture items, sculpture, Persian and Turkish rugs and objects from Israel and China.

My own interests in conservative politics began at Wharton and has grown over the years as well as my distaste for progressive, radical liberalism and, more currently, the entire Democrat party.

Obviously, I love reading and writing focusing on biographies, politics, economics and history and, on occasion, "beach books" like John Gresham, etc.

When I moved to Savannah, I decided to expose our friends to Georgia Art so for many years I put groups together to visit the State Museum (GMOA) located on the Univ. of Ga. campus in Athens, the Booth Western Art Museum in Cartersville,. Ga.. Space-wise The  Booth is the largest Western Art museum in the nation.

I also encourage every one to visit Don Kole's African Museum in Savannah 

SPECIAL INTEREST

Over 20 years ago we established a modest  Charitable Foundation. Upon our respective deaths 6 of our favorite charities will receive the proceeds.  They are as follows:


St John's Santa Fe Campus - Lynn and Dick Berkowitz Undergraduate Scholarships 

Ga. Museum of Art - Lynn and Dick Berkowitz Print and Drawing Acquisition Fund.

Lynn and Dick Berkowitz Israel Travel Scholarships. 

Abe Berkowitz Law Scholarship Foundation at Samford University

Daniel Berkowitz , Abby Berkowitz Nelson, Missy Sanchez and Suzanne Lamfalusi Scholarship Fund At Woodward Academy.

Hadassah Medical Center.

A Berkowitz Holocaust Foundation, Washington D.C.



SECOND SECTION:

FAMILY BRIEFS:

The first section of my autobiography focused, significantly, on my own life, most particularly my work experience, first marriage and  to some degree my education.

This second section, will focus more on individual family members, interaction, travels and activities with our five children and their progeny, our grandchildren and their children, ie our great grandchildren.  

I will discuss our children and their offspring beginning in birth order:.

I already wrote a good bit about Debra. She came to live with Lynn and myself  as she entered Keyon College. Kenyon is one of the fine, small liberal art colleges in the mid west and is located in Gambier, Ohio. The college has been  heavily supported by the Gund banking family. Paul Newman attended Kenyon  before Debra matriculated though she met him when he returned. My father and I visited Kenyon and Lynn and I attended her graduation. 

During her time at Kenyon she also spent a year abroad in Spain and Nantes, France and is very good with languages. She also knows Hebrew and is actively involved in synagogue life.

Debra was  infatuated with her political science professor, John  Agresto, and that is how I came to be on St John's College Board of Visitors.  When John was offered the Santa Fe Campus  position of President he also was given one choice to represent him on their Board and he selected me and I readily accepted. As previously noted, St John's is the 3rd oldest college in America, the curriculum is "The Great Books" and I discovered the school one weekend when I was in Annapolis (their first campus) on a day pass when I was stationed at Camp Getchie  during my PLC training.

 After graduation, Debra went to New York and actually worked a while at Burnham and also for a renowned publishing firm.  

She met her husband, Martin Darvick, then  a member of  GM's in-house legal counsel staff. Martin was from New York,  graduated Brooklyn College of the City University of New York in 1969 (Cum Laude.) and earned a law degree from The University of  Pennsylvania in 1972 (also Cum Laude.) He worked for the prestigious firm of  Shea Gould from 1972-5, specializing in Securities Law. He moved to CIT in 1976  and to General Motors Corporation from 1976 to 2009 (specializing in Securities Law and Finance).  He took early retirement some 10 or more years ago. 

Martin enjoys photography, traveling, gardening, reading, walking and being  with family.

They live in Birmingham, Michigan..

Martin took up photography as a hobby and is quite accomplished.  Debra is a published author, extremely creative  and has many diverse interests.

Below are samples of Martin's work and Debra's beauty.




DEBRA


Martin's Sedona Photography

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Debra gave us our first grandchild, Elliot, who is now married to Elizabeth and they have two
daughters, our first two great grandchildren (Olivia and Leah), live in Chicago and he is in charge of LYFT's Mid West Operation.  Elizabeth has a PHD in child psychology. We drove cross country to attend her PHD graduation.

Elizabeth, obviously knows a lot about raising kids and has done a marvelous job. For personal reasons they do not want me to post  pictures of their kids but they are absolute dolls. and I am not just saying that as their proud great grandfather. Olivia has a pisk "mouth," is bright and Martin, her grandfather, has introduced her to symphonic music and operas.  Leah is a beautiful round faced little pumpkin. Quiet, a bit shy but very observant.

Debra and Martin's second child is Emma who graduated from Trinity College in Hartford, Connecticut with an art degree and  now works for a very large magazine firm and worked her way up the ladder to a senior position as an illustrator. This past November, she married our tallest grandson (6' 5"),  Scott, who has his own business as an art/sculptor installer and all round craftsman. They currently live in New York but just bought a home on the Hudson River and Scott will be fixing it up and relocating his studio-woodworking operation contiguous to their house. Emma also is an independent artist whose stylized work reminds me of Alex Katz.  

We own a lovely piece of her art and you can see her work at EmmaDarvick.Com I believe her art  is underpriced.











                                                                     EMMA and SCOTT

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Amy, my number two daughter, came to live with us while in high school and she attended The University of Texas where she met Steve Trager. While in high school she was on the flag team. While at "Hook Em Horns" I visited her with my father .Amy joined a sorority and remains close to several of her "sisters" to this day.

After graduation, Amy moved to Louisville while Steve was in law School and their relationship eventually ended in their getting married in Atlanta.We are heading to Louisville this Sunday (5/30/2021 to celebrate four events - Amy's birthday, their anniversary, their Son Kevin's Master's Degree Graduation and their daughter, Emily's birthday. They continue to live in Louisville.  

After Law School Steve worked for one of the largest law firms in Louisville and then succeeded his father, Bernard, who founded the Republic Bank of Kentucky where Steve serves as Chairman. Steve has done a remarkable job of expanding the bank's foot print. They now have locations in Tennessee, Florida, Indiana and I believe Ohio. Republic Bank of Kentucky is now public.

Steve's Family Foundation has been very generous and the city is littered with their generosity.

Steve is a scratch golfer and fortunately they love to vacation at Palmetto Bluff so we get to see them when they are there. We also have fixed him up with golfers at The Landings and hope they will consider a second home here one day.

Amy  has made her mark as well helping to found and fund The West End School. She has served on its board, raised significant funds, tracked the graduates as they make their way through life and been very active in other charitable endeavors. Recently Amy was  recognized for her outstanding volunteerism at West End and is the first to receive The  Paul Perconti  Trustee Award



She now owns Monkey and donates a lot of time to her.


                                                                   
MONKEY
                                                                         

My father used to tell Amy how proud he was of her because he believed every family should have  banking connections.  He teasingly called her his; "Little Rothchild."


 STEVE AND AMY

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Their son, Kevin, graduated from The University of  Maryland, began a career in TV as an investigative reporter, found it disappointing and just received a Master's Degree in Social Work from The University of Louisville and will be on the staff of the, we hope, next mayor of Louisville helping run his campaign. Kevin is very creative and when he was an investigative reporter uncovered some interesting and devious happenings,  so much so he was asked to stop and that soured him on the investigative side of TV Reporting.

While a reporter in Wyoming, Kevin met Andy and they were married in Nashville and subsequently moved to Louisville. They have a home, a lovely red headed daughter named Collins (CJ) and a jealous family pet named Archer. 

Andy was a merchandise manager in a Louisville store that sells a lot of unique items before having Collins. She has a degree in decorating and has exquisite, eclectic taste. She is our family red head and I believe Collins will be as well.

The word is now official - Andy is pregnant with their second to be born in late November making a 4th great grandchild for us.








KEVIN AND ANDY
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Kevin's sister, Emily, is an event planner and also lives in Louisville with her husband, a friend from prep school days, Landon. Landon is a CPA.  They too have a family pet named Charlie. As yet no children.

We will also be celebrating Emily's 29th birthday along with Kevin's graduation,  Amy's birthday and Amy and Steve's Anniversary when we go to Louisville as noted above. 

Emily and Landon also have a home and we are jealous that Steve and Amy are able to be physically close to their kids. Lucky them.
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My third daughter, Lisa, attended Sarah Lawrence College, The London School of Economics, The University of Chicago Graham's School and received her Master's Degree  from The University of Chicago Booth School of Business. Lisa is a published author, a noted family bibliographer and makes her living as a prominent, well regarded editor.  She is married to Martin Thaler, a nationally known Professor of Commercial Design on the Faculty of  The  IIT Institute of Design.. Martin has a bachelor’s degree of fine arts in industrial design from The Rhode Island School of Design and a master of fine arts from the Royal College of Art in London.

They too live in Chicago and have a son Henry. Lisa and Marty were married in Chicago. My father's only brother, Jesse and his wife, Ann, came.

Lisa  loves movies and that love has rubbed off on their son. Perhaps that is why he lives in Hollywood. She also has an cyclopedic mind and her editing business has grown mainly through word of mouth.

Martin teaches in Asia during summer months. Some of his and his student's project  accomplishments:

Some of his Foundation's projects included are:
Future of Work
ID+Boxville


                                                           MARTIN THALER

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As for Henry, our youngest grandchild, he lives in Los Angeles, Graduated from Georgetown University and has had a variety of jobs and positions in the world of television beginning as an NBC Page and then writer's assistant as follows: 


Henry now has a girl friend and they are visiting in June. Her name is Jessica. We met her through zoom and she is lovely. Jessica is from Los Angeles. Not totally clear about what she does but has something to do at one of the California Universities helping special need students. I also understand her University has encouraged her to go for her fully funded Master's Degree which she is beginning shortly.

  HENRY
                                                   
HENRY AND LISA

HENRY'S GRANDFATHER, ARNOLD, HENRY AND ME
TAKEN AT HENRY'S GRADUATION

HENRY AND ME
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Our son, Daniel, was born March 7,1977, in Atlanta  Finally,  the Berkowitz side of the 
family now had an opportunity at continuance. He attended my Military School, which had become co-ed,
and was now Woodward Academy, as noted previously. Daniel was well liked and musical so he became the Woodward  
Band's Drum Major. The same band that marched in Jimmy Carter's Inauguration Parade. Daniel has a great 
sense of humor and was voted as such by his graduating class.

Upon graduation, he applied to and was accepted at The University of Rochester where 
he continued his musical life and formed a Dixie Land Band, joined a fraternity and enlisted in their NROTC.
Program. He also spent two summers with the University's Dean doing archeological digs in Israel.

His NROTC career was cut short when he took his second Navy Physical. They found him to be "color 
weak." I consulted with Sen. Sam Nunn about Daniel continuing in the Program if we paid for his
tuition but to no avail. The Sec.of The Navy assured Daniel an ensign position if he graduated and went to the Great Lakes Naval Training Center but, by then, Daniel had lost interest.

The University had, what they called, a "Take Five Program" named after, I believe, Dave Brubeck.  This allowed any qualified student, after graduation,  to study, tuition free, for a year in a scholastic area outside their main interest. Daniel wanted to do so but also wanted to attend The American University in Cairo and Rochester, naturally, would not pay.  I was able to arrange, with Sam Nunn's help, for Daniel to go under the auspices of a new program Nunn had established which paid tuition for students who wanted to study foreign languages and then serve time in government after finishing their prescribed courses. Lynn, Judy Hartley and two other girl friends visited Daniel in Egypt and traveled to Luxor, etc. He stayed in Cairo instead of coming home when the new century began.

Daniel .thought about getting a master's degree and I was able to arrange for him to receive The Levy Scholarship through a dear friend and he studied at The Hebrew University in Jerusalem.

When Daniel eventually returned,  Sam Nunn helped Daniel get a summer Internship working for Dr. Tony Cordesman at the CSIS Think Tank in D.C. Upon finishing,  it was time for him to work off his
obligatory government service off and he did so in the same fledgling entity Nunn had established. Daniel's job was telling and recruiting college students about and for the program, informing The Pentagon about the program and writing the Agency's first Annual Report.  I still have a copy in my annual report files

After his CSIS internship,  and period with the Nunn project, Daniel was ready to return to Jerusalem to complete his master's program when a very dear friend solicited him to head up fund raising for America's participation in The Nagoya World's Fair and manage the corporate participants. He concluded it was a once in a lifetime experience, which it was, and accepted the offer..

By then he had met his future wife, Tamara, who had graduated from American University with a degree in Event Planning. Daniel arranged for Tammy to become the event planner for The American Pavilion. We flew to D.C to meet Tammy's folks, they subsequently became engaged, were married in Miami at an all night South American type wedding ( Tammy's folks, David and Anica, were from Peru).

We subsequently flew to Nagoya with Abby, our daughter,  to experience the event.

After the World's Fair closed Daniel had some finishing up obligations. While in Japan he  met the son of one of my fraternity bother's whose own brother lived in Pittsburgh, who was seeking someone to begin start-up companies and offered Daniel a job which he took.  

The timing was just before the market collapsed and Daniel's boss got cold feet after seeing a substantial decline in his net worth, shut everything down and Daniel was out of a job.  

Tammy, is a marvelous cook and baker and from age ten always wanted to own a bakery so David and I financed what became "Sweet Tammy's." The product was excellent. Daniel can sell anything and  sales took off  but they never were able to make money because they could not control or figure the cost of goods side of the equation.  After costly trials and tribulations, Sweet Tammy's. closed .During this period they had their first child, Stella, and acquired two dogs, Tate and Theo, named after the Jazz Greats.

Daniel decided to try his hand at real estate development and has persevered  after three very tough years, and in a very difficult COVID environment.  He is finally on his way. "Atlas" now has two other partners who live in Pittsburgh.  The company owns some 180 "Archie Bunker" type homes which they purchase, fix up and rent and are in the process of buying an equal number over the next year or so in a second district in Pittsburgh and elsewhere.

During this period,  Daniel and Tamara had Max so the Berkowitz name will live on - eat your heart out you world of radical liberals!

During COVID, Daniel realized he could work from anywhere as his partners were able to take over many of his former functions and the family moved  to N Hollywood, Florida where he remains the CEO and Founding Partner, seeks financing of their ventures and explores other relationships.

"Atlas' " focus is residential and "Atlas" now is associated with an Arizona Group that concentrates  on commercial re-development.  Daniel is also exploring two other entrepreneurs who want to combine their similar ventures so they can  move to the next level of home rental ownership. A financial source Daniel uncovered is prepared to become their total lending source once they have a three state operation and reach a certain ownership/rental level.

I am keeping my fingers crossed as is he and his partners. They have begun an observation  trial period over the next year

Daniel is rehabilitating a home in a gated 32 home division next to a synagogue they attend as well as schools Max and Stella go to and life seems settled and good. It has been a long slog for them both but they have persevered and are coming out of the tunnel.

I can envision Daniel getting involved in The Jewish Federation  and other Civic endeavors. Tammy is helping her artist mother (Anica and David and members of their family live nearby) market her art designs and no doubt will kick up a storm when she starts baking and entertaining.  Her macaroons are to die for.

Stella is very talkative and calls us frequently. She loves dolls and is very kind to her brother Max. She is a good student and she, Dagny and Blake get along great.

Max could be the "hellion" in the family.  He loves to clean everything and when he recently was taken to Disney spent more time helping a park maintenance man  sweep up the grounds. He is a tad shy unless you are cleaning something, then he is in his element.





                                                        DANIEL, TAMMY, STELLA AND MAX

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 Our daughter, and my fifth child, Abby, also was born (Dec.30, 1980) in Atlanta.  In those days if a child was born before year's end you got an extra tax deduction.  Abby beat the clock. and I will always be grateful for that extra help. 

She too attended Woodward Academy, was a solid athlete and a good soccer player. Upon graduation she chose to go south to Rollins College where she met her future husband the second week of their Freshman year. She also joined a sorority, and was a champion rower  breaking the then Rollins ERG records. Over the years we attended virtually all her meets. She majored in Spanish and went to Spain for a summer semester

After Abby graduated she traveled a little, stayed in Winter Park, as did Brian, and their relationship grew and eventually they married.  By then we had moved to Savannah so their wedding was here.

After college,  Abby worked at various menial jobs, one was selling candles. The store eventually closed and  I suggested she consider real estate. A dear Atlanta friend connected her with a cousin in Winter Park and off she took like a rocket. She eventually went out on her own, now has a group of probably 7 doing various jobs so she can expand her business.  She also connected with a consulting group that has helped her and she has become one of the Orlando Area's top real estate brokers being named one of the top producers below 30 in age.

Service is her strength and she recieves all kind of unsolicited accolades from her growing client base. Also, the price of homes she is selling is rising as she builds her confidence and wealthier clients seek her expertise. She also drives a Mercedes after selling her less impressive smaller car she drove at Rollins. What is best is she remains down to earth, a good attentive mother, though busy, and has now begun to be involved in charitable activities and is a willing giver.

Abby lacked self-confidence when she was attending Woodward but has, as the song goes," overcome."

Brian attended Rollins and majored in history but is an IT guy and can fix anything from cars to whatever breaks in the house. He is a master electrician and is rebuilding a 1968 Ford Mustang hardtop. I told Brian if he ever finishes I will  fund him putting in A/C.

He also is a national wake board skier and has trained their kids, Dagny and Blake, to follow in his "wake"

Having lived his childhood in Massachusetts he is an avid Patriot Fan and the kids have the appropriate shirts and paraphernalia so they can watch and cheer the beloved Patriots in football season. Brian also is getting better at the guitar and music is rubbing off on the kids. I believe Dagny might become a thespian and Blake has musical talent but COVID interrupted his piano lessons.  They both love to put on shows for us when they are here and we in Maitland, Florida where they live.

Dagny was born on March 11, 2012 and Blake, February 28, 2014. They irritate each other at times, , as one would expect, but they are very good to each other and Blake is pliable and willing to be included when Dagny has girl friends over. 

Brian is employed by the group that owns Red Lobster Restaurants and cannot wait to get back to his office.  He is a good dad, a bit impatient at times, cooks for the family, loves to grill and a strict disciplinarian.

Abby is a cyclist and every weekend rides 50 to 100 miles, Brian works out with weights and is buff.
They both love golf, now own a camper and do that on weekends and ski in the lake across from where they live.









BLAKE, DAGNY, BRIAN, ABBY, GRANDPA ME, and OUR TWO CHILDREN AND THEIR  FAMILIES AT THE ANNUAL TYBEE WEEK. LYNN'S MOTHER FRANCES, BEGAN THIS WHEN THEY STARTED HAVING GRANDCHILDREN.

WE DO OUR BEST TO KEEP THE FIRST COUSINS CLOSE. 

DEBRA AND MARTIN ALSO COME AS DOES HENRY BUT WORK SCHEDULES, DISTANCE and ROOM AVAILABILITY  MAKES IT DIFFICULT AND COSTLY NOW THAT WE NUMBER 28 SOON TO BE 29.
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In retrospect, I realize I was unable to take more trips with my three girls, in their younger years because I lacked the funds, was in the beginning of my career, lacked free time and have never been good when it comes to balancing priorities. Work first, then  pleasure.  I did take Debra, Amy, Lisa, Abby and Tammy on a father/daughter and daughter-in-law Santa Fe trip. We stayed at The Inn at The Alameda, my favorite adobe type Motel and I gave each a "few dollars" for spending money. Amy put a great album together that reminded me how beautiful my "girls" are.

We have many albums of pictures to document our expanding family including slides from when I served in France which I recently gave to Debra who was born there.

As I wrote the above, I understand it reflects the fact that when I had my first three kids I was working very hard to establish myself. and was not as involved in their day to day lives. Then my divorce and remarriage placed further restraints and encumbrances on my relationship and finally their own distance had its impact as they married and moved to other distant cities.

Lynn and I have tried to make up for some of this and I believe our trip to China with our five  grandchildren and Abby was memorable as well as several other cruises where we invited the family and the trip to Costa Rica. Now that we number 28 and soon tobe 29, and everyone has conflicting schedules, personal demands and live from coast to coast it becomes harder to keep the family in physical touch.

In the past two years we have seen everyone but that becomes more difficult as I get older and lack the stamina I once had but we are not giving up and are trying to juggle as best we can.

I recently celebrated my 88th birthday at Litchfield and, as always, Lynn made it special by always cooking my favorite items, ie. corn fritters, canned corn, preceded by some delicious type soup and followed by Key Lime Pie and or Milk Dud's.  

I hope the length of reviews will not be seen as reflecting the degree of my love for all the family members. Each relationship I have is different but the love for each and every one and wishes of the best for each remains equal.

My father used to love a particular comedian who was a fixture in  Las Vegas.  As he performed he would walk around to the various front tables and take a drink and he would always end with this phrase: " You have only one life to live but if you live it right once is enough."

Lynn has been an amazing mate. She is level headed, extremely sensitive to the needs of others, my most severe critic but always meant in my best interest and constantly attentive to what is best for our family. Most importantly, she has been my best friend and stock picker. I should have listened to her.

Everyone who knows her loves her and wonders how she put's up with me. She is thoughtful and very feeling. She is a gift from God.

Much of my autobiography is about others but everyone's life is a composite of interactions with "others." In my specific case,  what I learned from "others," which includes teachers, mentors, clients, therapists," significantly shaped my thinking and life. I also have learned a great deal about myself as a result of my relationships with my family. Lamentably, I also was exposed to my own deficiencies as well.

I would like to make it to 90 because I told Lynn I would do my best but, should I not, I can truthfully say with certitude I have had a great life to date. Done more than I ever thought I would. Have an amazingly diverse and gifted family.  Have met some amazing people and made some fabulous and diverse friendships. 

Though I am conservative politcally, I get along fine with those of a different political pursuasion becaue I have learned to shake my head in disbelief.

I have every reason to believe my children, grandchildren and greatgrandchildren will do well because they have,or will have, a good educations, good parenting and benefit from a decent gene pool.

My greatest concerns: I believe I lived in the filet mignon period of America and what "choice cuts" are left for them is debatable. There is no doubt China is the great emerging power that could well surpass us and could have a significant negative impact on the remaining nations of the world. Socialism and Communism have proven empty and dangerous promises. Only radicals, the uninformed and the discontented are dumb enough to flirt with or embrace them. 

As for the youth,  they are given an exemption until they become adults because they are learning and experiencing as they should be so as not to live a life of inexperience and desparation.

I remain troubled America no longer positions education in it's rightful vaulted place and our extraordinary level of debt is frightfully dangerous. A republic form of government requires constant and informed attention. Ben Franklin was spot on with his prescient warning.

What concerns me most is those who wish to destroy our republic from within are excelling as I write. They are weaponizing everything, using race and intimidation as their pre-imminent dividers and they are winning. I fear the ability to turn back to what we once were is beyond  reach. I truly fear for the nation's future.

For every top there is a bottom and for every beginning there is an end. No one knows when theirs' will occur but statistically I certainly have less ahead than I have already lived.

As to my family, I leave you with this simple message - always treat others as you would like them to treat you. Perhaps trite but very powerful. It will always serve you well.

This autobiography, hopefully, will prove a meaningful/insightful extension for those whose lives I have touched. and to whom I am indebted.

I confess to the fact, this autobiography is more factual, less feeling and that too is revealing and therefore, remains constant my challenge.

Finally, I thank my son, Daniel, for suggesting I write this so those in the family who know me might learn more about who I am and why and those in the family who will never know me will learn who was their patriarch.

One always has regrets and I wish our extended members had lived closer but that is not possible in today's world of "the atomic family."

All should know I am proud of each and every one of you and love you all but often fail to show and/or express myself.

If it were possible and for the sake of our nation, I would have each one of you Xeroxed because America would be a better place.


God Bless You, My Friends, America and Israel!

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I thought it might be interesting to post a synopsis of what happened to this creative firm as a result of it's involvement with Michael Milken. 

For those who might be interested in the Burnham Story and it's demise I have included a synopsis of it's history below.

Burnham Becomes Drexel Burnham Lambert:

Drexel Burnham Lambert was an American investment bank that was forced into bankruptcy in 1990 due to its involvement in illegal activities in the junk bond market, driven by senior executive Michael Milken. At its height, it was a Bulge Bracket bank, as the fifth-largest investment bank in the United States.[2]

The firm had its most profitable fiscal year in 1986, netting $545.5 million—at the time, the most profitable year ever for a Wall Street firm, and equivalent to $1.1 billion in 2019. In 1986, Milken, who was Drexel's head of high-yield securities, was paid $295 million, the highest salary that an employee in the modern history of the world had ever received.[1][3][4][5]

The firm's aggressive culture led many Drexel employees to stray into unethical, and sometimes illegal, conduct. Milken and his colleagues, at the high-yield bond department, believed the securities laws hindered the free flow of trade. Eventually, Drexel's excessive ambition led it to abuse the junk bond market and become involved in insider trading. On February 1990, Drexel was forced into Chapter 11 bankruptcy by the chairmen of the New York Federal Reserve and the Securities and Exchange Commission. It was the first Wall Street firm to be forced into bankruptcy since the Great Depression.[6]

After Drexel's collapse, Kurt Eichenwald of the New York Times noted the bank "fueled many of the biggest corporate takeovers of the 1980s."[7]

I.W. "Tubby" Burnham, a 1931 graduate of the Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania, founded the firm in 1935 as Burnham and Company, a small New York City–based retail broker.[8] Burnham started the firm with $100,000 of capital (equivalent to $1.5 million in 2019), $96,000 of which was borrowed from his grandfather, the founder of a Kentucky distillery.[6]

It became one of the more successful brokerages in the country, eventually building its capital to $1 billion.[2] While Burnham eventually branched out into investment banking, the company's ability to expand was limited by the structure of the investment banking industry of that time. A strict unwritten set of rules assured the dominance of a few large firms by controlling the order in which their names appeared in advertisements for an underwriting. Burnham, as a "sub-major" firm, needed to connect with a "major" or "special" firm in order to further expand.[6]

Burnham found a willing partner in Drexel Firestone, an ailing Philadelphia-based firm with a rich history. Drexel Firestone traced its history to 1838, when Francis Martin Drexel founded Drexel & Company. His son, Anthony Joseph Drexel, became a partner in the firm at age 21, in 1847. The company made money in the opportunities created by mid-century gold finds in California. The company was also involved in financial deals with the federal government during the Mexican–American War and the U.S. Civil War. A. J. Drexel took over the firm when his father died in 1863. He partnered with J. P. Morgan and created one of the largest banking companies in the world, Drexel, Morgan & Co.[9]

In 1940, several former Drexel partners and associates formed an investment bank and assumed the rights to the "Drexel and Company" name. The old Drexel, which chose to concentrate on commercial banking after the Glass–Steagall Act regulated the separation of commercial and investment banking, was completely absorbed into the Morgan empire. The new Drexel grew slowly, coasting on its predecessor's historic ties to the larger securities issuers. By the early 1960s, it found itself short on capital. It merged with Harriman, Ripley and Company in 1965,[6] and renamed itself Drexel Harriman Ripley. In the mid-1970s, it sold a 25 percent stake to Firestone Tire and Rubber Company, renaming itself Drexel Firestone.

Despite having only two major clients by the dawn of the 1970s, Drexel was still considered a major firm, and thus got a large chunk of the syndicates formed to sell stocks and bonds. It was a shell of its former self, however, as evidenced in 1973, when a severe drop in the stock market sent the firm reeling. Drexel management soon realized  a prominent name was not nearly enough to survive, and was very receptive to a merger offer from Burnham.[1]

Even though Burnham was the surviving company, the more powerful investment banks (whose informal blessing the new firm needed to survive on Wall Street) insisted that the Drexel name come first as a condition of joining the "major" bracket. Thus, Drexel Burnham and Company, headquartered in New York, was born in 1973[10] with $44 million in capital.[6]

In 1976, it merged with William D. Witter (also known as Lambert Brussels Witter), a small "research boutique" that was the American arm of Belgian-based Groupe Bruxelles Lambert. The firm was renamed Drexel Burnham Lambert, and incorporated that year after 41 years as a limited partnership.[6] The enlarged firm was privately held; Lambert held a 26 percent stake and received six seats on the board of directors. Most of the remaining 74 percent was held by employees.[1] Burnham remained the enlarged firm's chairman. He handed the posts of president and CEO to Robert Linton, who had begun at Burnham and Company in 1945 as a stock certificate runner. Burnham handed the chairmanship to Linton as well in 1982.[8][11][6]

Business

Drexel's legacy as an advisor to both startup companies and fallen angels remains an industry model today. While Michael Milken (a holdover from the old Drexel) got most of the credit by almost single-handedly creating a junk bond market, another key architect in this strategy was Fred Joseph. Shortly after buying the old Drexel, Burnham found out Joseph, chief operating officer of Shearson Hamill, wanted to get back into the nuts and bolts of investment banking and hired him as co-head of corporate finance. Joseph, the son of a Boston taxicab driver, promised Burnham that in 10 years, he would make Drexel Burnham as powerful as Goldman Sachs.[10]

Michael Milken in 2006. He was Drexel's head of high-yield securities

Joseph's prophecy proved accurate. The firm rose from the bottom of the pack to compete with and even top the Wall Street Bulge Bracket firms. While Milken was clearly the most powerful man in the firm (to the point that a business consultant warned Drexel that it was a "one-product company"),[3] but it was Joseph who succeeded Linton as president in 1984, adding the post of CEO in 1985.[6]

Drexel, however, was more aggressive in its business practices than most. When it entered the mergers and acquisitions field in the early 1980s, it did not shy away from backing hostile takeovers—long a taboo among the established firms. Its specialty was the "highly confident letter", in which it promised it could get the necessary financing for a hostile takeover. Although it had no legal status, Drexel's reputation for making markets for any bonds it underwrote was such that a "highly confident letter" was as good as cash to many of the corporate raiders of the 1980s.[6] Among the deals it financed during this time were T. Boone Pickens' failed runs at Gulf Oil and UnocalCarl Icahn's bid for Phillips 66Ted Turner's buyout of MGM/UA,[6] and Kohlberg Kravis Roberts successful bid for RJR Nabisco.[12]

Organizationally, the firm was considered the definition of a meritocracy. Divisions received bonuses based on their individual performance rather than the performance of the firm as a whole. This often led to acrimony between individual departments, who sometimes acted like independent companies rather than small parts of a larger one. Also, several employees formed limited partnerships that allowed them to invest alongside Milken. These partnerships often made more money than the firm itself did on a particular deal. For instance, many of the partnerships ended up with more warrants than the firm itself held in particular deals.[1]

The firm had its most profitable fiscal year in 1986, netting $545.5 million—at the time, the most profitable year ever for a Wall Street firm, and equivalent to $1.1 billion in 2019. In 1987, Milken was paid executive compensation of $550 million for the year.[1][3]

Downfall

1986-1989

According to Dan Stone, a former Drexel executive, the firm's aggressive culture led many Drexel employees to stray into unethical, and sometimes illegal, conduct. Milken himself viewed the securities laws, rules and regulations with some degree of contempt, feeling they hindered the free flow of trade. He was under nearly constant scrutiny from the Securities and Exchange Commission from 1979 onward, in part because he often condoned unethical and illegal behavior by his colleagues at Drexel's operation in Beverly Hills.[1] He personally called Joseph, however, who believed in following the rules to the letter, on several occasions with ethical questions.[3]

The firm was first rocked on May 12, 1986, when Dennis Levine, a managing director in Drexel's M&A department, was charged with insider trading. Levine had joined Drexel only a year earlier. Unknown to Drexel management, he had spent his entire Wall Street career trading on inside information. Levine pleaded guilty to four felonies, and implicated one of his recent partners, super-arbitrageur Ivan Boesky. Largely based on information Boesky promised to provide about his dealings with Milken, the SEC initiated an investigation of Drexel on November 17. Two days later, Rudy Giuliani, then the United States Attorney for the Southern District of New York, launched his own investigation. Ominously, Milken refused to cooperate with Drexel's own internal investigation, only speaking through his attorneys.[1] A year later, Martin Siegel, the co-head of M&A, pleaded guilty to sharing inside information with Boesky during his tenure at Kidder, Peabody.[10]

For two years, Drexel steadfastly denied any wrongdoing, claiming  the criminal and SEC investigations into Milken's activities were based almost entirely on the statements of Boesky, an admitted felon looking to reduce his sentence. This was not enough to keep the SEC from suing Drexel in September 1988 for insider trading, stock manipulation, defrauding its clients and stock parking (buying stocks for the benefit of another). All of the transactions involved Milken and his department. The most intriguing charge was that Boesky paid Drexel $5.3 million in 1986 for Milken's share of profits from illegal trading. Earlier in the year, Boesky characterized the payment as a consulting fee to Drexel. Around the same year, Giuliani began seriously considering indicting Drexel under the powerful Racketeer Influenced and Corrupt Organizations Act. Drexel was potentially liable under the doctrine of respondeat superior, which holds that companies are responsible for an employee's crimes.[1]

The threat of a RICO indictment unnerved many at Drexel. A RICO indictment would have required the firm to put up a performance bond of as much as $1 billion in lieu of having its assets frozen. This provision was put in the law because organized crime had a habit of absconding with the funds of indicted companies, and the writers of RICO wanted to make sure there was something to seize or forfeit in the event of a guilty verdict. Most Wall Street firms, then as now, relied heavily on loans. However, 96 percent of Drexel's capital was borrowed money, by far the most of any firm. This debt would have to take second place to any performance bond. Additionally, if the bond ever had to be paid, Drexel's stockholders would have all been virtually wiped out. Due to this, banks will not extend credit to a securities firm under a RICO indictment.[1]

By this time, several Drexel executives—including Joseph—concluded Drexel could not survive a RICO indictment and would have to seek a settlement with Giuliani. Senior Drexel executives became particularly nervous after Princeton Newport Partners, a small investment partnership, was forced to close its doors in the summer of 1988. Princeton Newport had been indicted under RICO, and the prospect of having to post a huge performance bond forced its shutdown well before the trial. Indeed, the discovery of Milken's role in many of Princeton Newport's illicit doings led Joseph to conclude Milken had indeed engaged in illegal activity. Joseph said years later that he'd been told  a RICO indictment would destroy Drexel within a month, if not sooner. As it turned out, even though Milken and Drexel signed a co-counsel agreement, Milken's legal team warned him  Drexel would almost certainly be forced to cooperate rather than risk being driven out of business by the pressures of the investigation.[1][10]

Nonetheless, negotiations for a possible plea agreement collapsed on December 19 when Giuliani made several demands that were far too draconian even for those who advocated a settlement. Giuliani demanded Drexel waive its attorney–client privilege, and also wanted the right to arbitrarily decide the firm had violated the terms of any plea agreement. He also demanded Milken leave the firm if the government ever indicted him. Drexel's board unanimously rejected the terms. For a time, it looked like Drexel was going to fight.[1][10]

Only two days later, however, Drexel lawyers found out about a limited partnership set up by Milken's department, MacPherson Partners, they previously hadn't known about. This partnership had been involved in the issuing of bonds for Storer Broadcasting. Several equity warrants were sold to one client who sold them back to Milken's department. Milken then sold the warrants to MacPherson Partners. The limited partners included several of Milken's children, and more ominously, managers of money funds. This partnership raised the specter of self-dealing, and at worst, bribes to the money managers. At the very least, this was a serious breach of Drexel's internal regulations. Drexel immediately reported this partnership to Giuliani, and its revelation seriously hurt Milken's credibility with many at Drexel who believed in Milken's innocence—including Joseph and most of the board.[1][10]

With literally minutes to go before being indicted (according to at least one source, the grand jury was actually in the process of voting on the indictment), Drexel reached an agreement with the government in which it entered an Alford plea to six felonies—three counts of stock parking and three counts of stock manipulation.[1] It also agreed to pay a fine of $650 million—at the time, the largest fine ever levied under the Great Depression-era securities laws.

The government had dropped several of the demands that had initially angered Drexel, but continued to insist that Milken leave the firm if indicted—which he did shortly after his own indictment in March 1989.[6][10] Drexel's Alford plea allowed the firm to maintain its innocence while acknowledging that it was "not in a position to dispute the allegations" made by the government. Nonetheless, Drexel was now a convicted felon.

In April 1989, Drexel settled with the SEC, agreeing to stricter safeguards on its oversight procedures. Later that month, the firm eliminated 5,000 jobs by shuttering three departments—including the retail brokerage operation. In essence, Drexel was jettisoning the core of the old Burnham & Company.[1] The retail accounts were eventually sold to Smith Barney.[13]

1989-1990

Due to several deals that didn't work out, as well as an unexpected crash of the junk bond market, 1989 was a difficult year for Drexel even after it settled the criminal and SEC cases. Reports of an $86 million loss going into the fourth quarter resulted in the firm's commercial paper rating being cut in late November. This made it nearly impossible for Drexel to reborrow its outstanding commercial paper, and it had to be repaid. Rumors abounded that the banks could yank Drexel's lines of credit at any time. Unfortunately, Drexel had no corporate parent that could pump in cash in the event of such a crisis, unlike most American financial institutions. Groupe Bruxelles Lambert refused to even consider making an equity investment until Joseph improved the bottom line. The firm posted a $40 million loss for 1989—the first operating loss in its 54-year history.[1]

Drexel managed to survive into 1990 by transferring some of the excess capital from its regulated broker/dealer subsidiary into its holding company, Drexel Burnham Lambert Group—only to be ordered to stop by the SEC on February 9 out of concerns about the broker's solvency. This sent Joseph and other senior executives into a near-panic. After the SEC, the New York Stock Exchange, and the Federal Reserve Bank of New York cast doubts about a restructuring plan, Joseph concluded that Drexel could not stay independent. Unfortunately, concerns about possible liability to civil suits scared off an eleventh-hour attempt to find a prospective buyer.[1][10][7]

By February 12, it was obvious Drexel was headed for collapse. Its commercial paper rating was further reduced that day, and the holding company defaulted on $100 million in loans. Citibank led a group of banks that tried to put together a loan package for the reeling firm, but this came to nothing. With other firms shutting Drexel out of deals, Joseph's last resort was a bailout by the government. Unfortunately for Drexel, one of its first hostile deals came back to haunt it at this point. Unocal's investment bank at the time of Pickens' raid on it was the establishment firm of Dillon, Read—and its former chairman, Nicholas F. Brady, was now Secretary of the Treasury. Brady had never forgiven Drexel for its role in the Unocal deal, and would not even consider signing off on a bailout.[7][10]

Early on the morning of February 13, New York Fed president E. Gerald Corrigan and SEC chairman Richard Breeden called Joseph and told him that they, Brady and NYSE chairman John J. Phelan Jr. saw "no light at the end of the tunnel" for Drexel. They gave Joseph an ultimatum–unless Drexel filed for bankruptcy, the SEC would seize Drexel that morning before the markets opened. After Joseph told the board that Drexel had effectively been told to "go out of business," the board voted to file for bankruptcy. That night, Drexel officially filed for Chapter 11 bankruptcy protection.[10] Drexel was the first Wall Street firm since the Depression to be forced into bankruptcy.[6] The filing covered only the parent company, not the broker/dealer; executives and lawyers believed that confidence in Drexel had deteriorated so much that the firm was finished in its then-current form.[7]

Even before the firm's bankruptcy, Tubby Burnham spun off the firm's funds management arm as Burnham Financial Group, which currently operates as a diversified investment company. Burnham was reportedly still arranging deals until his death in 2002 at age 93.[13] The rest of Drexel emerged from bankruptcy in 1992 as New Street Capital, a small investment bank with only 20 employees (at its height, Drexel employed over 10,000 people) and strict limits on its activities.[6] In 1994, New Street merged with Green Capital, a merchant bank owned by Atlanta financier Holcombe Green.[14]

Richard A. Brenner, the brother of a president with controlling stakes stated in his memoir "My Life Seen Through Our Eyes" that other firms at Wall Street did not support Drexel or come to its aid when the company got into trouble because they were "smelling an opportunity to grab this business."[15]

Criticism

By the late 1980s, public confidence in leveraged buyouts had waned, and criticism of the perceived engine of the takeover movement, the junk bond, had increased. Innovative financial instruments often generate skepticism, and few have generated more controversy than high yield debt. Some argue that the debt instrument itself, sometimes dubbed "turbo debt," was the cornerstone of the 1980s "Decade of Greed." Junk bonds were actually used in less than 25% of acquisitions, however, and hostile takeovers during that period. Nevertheless, by 1990 default rates on high yield debt had increased from 4% to 10%, further eroding confidence in this financial instrument. Without Milken's cheerleading, the liquidity of the junk bond market dried up. Drexel was forced to buy the bonds of insolvent and failing companies, which depleted their capital and would eventually bankrupt the company.

Survivors

A few other firms emerged or became more important from Drexel's collapse, besides Burnham Financial.

There was also the 1838 Group named after the founding date of Drexel established by another group of investment fund managers. The funds suffered from under performance and the group folded. Drexel Burnham Lambert Real Estate Associates II operates as a real estate management firm. Apollo Global Management, the noted private equity firm, was also founded by Drexel alumni led by Leon BlackRichard Handler joined Jefferies immediately following the Drexel bankruptcy with a number of partners and began building the firm into what today is the largest, independent, full service, global investment bank (non bank-holding company). Fred Joseph bought into a firm founded by John Adams Morgan to establish Morgan Joseph, a middle-market investment bank that caters to many of the same kinds of clients as Drexel had. In 2011, the firm merged with Tri-Artisan Partners, a merchant bank, to form Morgan Joseph TriArtisan. Although the firm carried Joseph's name and he was part-owner, he was only co-head of corporate finance until his death in 2009. In 1993, the SEC barred him from serving as president, chairman or CEO of a securities firm for life for failing to properly supervise Milken. Morgan Joseph TriArtisan's chairman and CEO is John Sorte, Joseph's successor as president and CEO of Drexel from 1990 to 1992.[16][17] In 2011, Portfolio.com and CNBC named Joseph the seventh-worst CEO in American business history, saying that "his poor management left the company without a crisis plan."[18]

Former employees

References[edit]

1. Jump up to: Stone, Dan G. (1990). April Fools: An Insider's Account of the Rise and Collapse of Drexel Burnham. New York City: Donald I. Fine. ISBN 1-55611-228-9.

2. Jump up to: Your Best Job | MoreBusiness.com

3. Jump up to: Kornbluth, Jesse (1992). Highly Confident: The Crime and Punishment of Michael Milken. New York: William Morrow and CompanyISBN 0-688-10937-3.

4. ^ Business Insider: Michael Milken invented the modern junk bond, went to prison, and then became one of the most respected people on Wall Street - May 2, 2017

5. ^ Eichenwald, Kurt (April 3, 1989). "Wages Even Wall St. Can't Stomach". The New York Times. Archived from the original on February 4, 2017. Retrieved February 11, 2017. Surely no one in American history has earned anywhere near as much in a year as Mr. Milken.

6. Jump up to: New Street Capital Inc. - Company Profile, Information, Business Description, History, Background Information on New Street Capital Inc

7. Jump up to: "The Collapse of Drexel Burnham Lambert". The New York Times. February 14, 1990.

8. Jump up to: I.W. Burnham II, a Baron of Wall Street, Is Dead at 93The New York Times, June 29, 2002

9. ^ The Man Who Made Wall Street: Anthony J. Drexel and the Rise of Modern Finance.

10.            Jump up to: Den of ThievesStewart, J. B. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1991. ISBN 0-671-63802-5.

11.            ^ Ben Protess (April 29, 2016). "Robert Linton, Steadfast '80s Wall Street Banker, Dies at 90"The New York Times.

12.            ^ "A Heap of Woe for the Junkman". Time. December 5, 1988. Retrieved May 1, 2010.

13.            Jump up to:  A Stomping Ground for Veteran Analysts - January 6, 2006 - The New York Sun

14.            ^ BW Online | March 7, 1994 | DREXEL GIVES UP THE GHOST ArchivedJanuary 3, 2008, at the Wayback Machine

15.            ^ Brenner, Richard A (2012). My Life Seen Through Our Eyes. Sunstone Press. ISBN 9781611390742.

16.            ^ BW Online | July 14, 2003 | Drexel's Ex-Chief Is Back in Business Archived June 23, 2010, at the Wayback Machine

17.            ^ Morgan Joseph Merges With Tri-ArtisanInstitutional Investor, 2011-01-09.

18.            ^ "Fred Joseph". CNBC. 2009-04-30. Retrieved 2011-01-16.

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·         Drexel's Fall: The Final DaysNew York magazine Mar 19, 1990. 

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