Never bite the finger of your son's sugar daddy.
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Religion in a growing faithless America. (See 1 below.)
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When it comes to Democrats they walk barefoot and thus, never stand in the other's shoes. They are above such silliness and it gives them license to live outside the rule of law.. (See 2 below.)
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1) Don’t Believe in God? Lie to Your Children
The alternative is to tell them they’re simply going to die and turn to dust.
By Erica Komisar
As a therapist, I’m often asked to explain why depression and anxiety are so common among children and adolescents. One of the most important explanations—and perhaps the most neglected—is declining interest in religion. This cultural shift already has proved disastrous for millions of vulnerable young people.
A 2018 study in the American Journal of Epidemiology examined how being raised in a family with religious or spiritual beliefs affects mental health. Harvard researchers had examined religious involvement within a longitudinal data set of approximately 5,000 people, with controls for socio-demographic characteristics and maternal health.
The result? Children or teens who reported attending a religious service at least once per week scored higher on psychological well-being measurements and had lower risks of mental illness. Weekly attendance was associated with higher rates of volunteering, a sense of mission, forgiveness, and lower probabilities of drug use and early sexual initiation. Pity then that the U.S. has seen a 20% decrease in attendance at formal religious services in the past 20 years, according to a Gallup report earlier this year. In 2018 the American Family Survey showed that nearly half of adults under 30 do not identify with any religion.
Nihilism is fertilizer for anxiety and depression, and being “realistic” is overrated. The belief in God—in a protective and guiding figure to rely on when times are tough—is one of the best kinds of support for kids in an increasingly pessimistic world. That’s only one reason, from a purely mental-health perspective, to pass down a faith tradition.
I am often asked by parents, “How do I talk to my child about death if I don’t believe in God or heaven?” My answer is always the same: “Lie.” The idea that you simply die and turn to dust may work for some adults, but it doesn’t help children. Belief in heaven helps them grapple with this tremendous and incomprehensible loss. In an age of broken families, distracted parents, school violence and nightmarish global-warming predictions, imagination plays a big part in children’s ability to cope.
I also am frequently asked about how parents can instill gratitude and empathy in their children. These virtues are inherent in most religions. The concept of tikkun olam, or healing the world, is one of the pillars of my Jewish faith. In accordance with this belief, we expect our children to perform community service in our synagogue and in the community at large. As they grow older, young Jews take independent responsibility for this sacred activity. One of my sons cooks for our temple’s homeless shelter. The other volunteers at a prison, while my daughter helps out at an animal shelter.
Such values can be found among countless other religious groups. It’s rare to find a faith that doesn’t encourage gratitude as an antidote to entitlement or empathy for anyone who needs nurturing. These are the building blocks of strong character. They are also protective against depression and anxiety.
In an individualistic, narcissistic and lonely society, religion provides children a rare opportunity for natural community. My rabbi always says that being Jewish is not only about ethnic identity and bagels and lox: It’s about community. The idea that hundreds of people can gather together and sing joyful prayers as a collective is a buffer against the emptiness of modern culture. It’s more necessary than ever in a world where teens can have hundreds of virtual friends and few real ones, where parents are often too distracted physically or emotionally to soothe their children’s distress.
Religion or spiritual practices can teach children mindfulness, a sense of physical and emotional presence necessary for mental health. No matter how active my children were when they were young, they knew when they entered our temple for services they had to calm their bodies and relax their minds. Though they complained when they were kids, and still complain at times as adolescents, they have developed the ability to calm themselves when overwhelmed.
Today the U.S. is a competitive, scary and stressful place that idealizes perfectionism, materialism, selfishness and virtual rather than real human connection. Religion is the best bulwark against that kind of society. Spiritual belief and practice reinforce collective kindness, empathy, gratitude and real connection. Whether children choose to continue to practice as adults is something parents cannot control. But that spiritual or religious center will benefit them their entire lives.
Ms. Komisar is a psychoanalyst and author of “Being There: Why Prioritizing Motherhood in the First Three Years Matters.”
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2) Five Times Democrats Didn't Care When Obama Committed Obstruction of Justice
Listening to Democrats make their “case” for impeaching Trump is like watching a child make excuses for why they should be able to stay up late or not have to eat their vegetables. It’s an endless evolving list of explanations and excuses. We’ve seen them allege a quid pro quo, bribery, extortion… basically whatever polled well on a given week. One fairly new angle they’ve been pushing is that the mere pushback against subpoenas is tantamount to obstruction of justice—an impeachable offense.
Professor Jonathan Turley destroyed this argument during his testimony this week before the House Judiciary Committee. “He’s allowed to do that; we have three branches, not two. If you impeach a president, if you make a high crime and misdemeanor out of going to the courts, it is an abuse of power. It’s your abuse of power,” Turley said, referring Congress. “You are doing precisely what you’re criticizing the president for doing.”
Turley also noted, "President Obama withheld evidence from Congress in Fast and Furious, an investigation — or rather moronic program — that led to the death of a federal agent. President Obama gave a sweeping argument that he was not only not going to give evidence to this body but that a court had absolutely no role in determining whether he could withhold the evidence."
Fast and Furious is certainly the most well-known example, but there are many other examples of Obama doing what Democrats now claim to be an impeachable offense. If Democrats like Nancy Pelosi were being honest that this isn’t about politics but the rule of law and holding presidents accountable and such, they should have impeached Obama… and it’s not like they didn’t have multiple opportunities either. Here are just five instances (of many more) where Obama obstructed justice and Democrats didn’t care enough about abuse of power to impeach him. So really, they should stop pretending they give a hoot about the rule of law or our democracy or the Constitution.
5. Obstructing the NBPP voter intimidation investigation
If not allowing administration officials to testify or fighting subpoenas in the courts is obstruction of justice and therefore an impeachable offense, then Barack Obama should have been impeached very early in his presidency for just that. When the Obama Justice Department decided to dismiss voter intimidation charges against the New Black Panther Party after the government had effectively already won the case, it raised many questions about the motivations behind that decision. The Obama administration vigorously fought subpoenas and instructed officials not to testify.
Nancy Pelosi was still Speaker of the House and didn’t accuse Obama of abuse of power for letting an allied group off the hook for voter intimidation for racial reasons.
4. Not providing subpoenaed Solyndra documents
When the Obama administration got into hot water over green energy loans for companies that donated to Obama’s campaign after several of those companies, like Solyndra, ultimately went bankrupt, House Republicans launched an investigation and issued subpoenas. Did the Obama administration “respect” the authority of Congress to issue subpoenas and comply automatically? Nope. The Obama White House would have none of it, and claimed that complying with the subpoenas would put an "unreasonable burden on the president's ability to meet his constitutional duties." House Republicans accused the Obama White House of hiding information, and they responded with accusations of a partisan investigation.
3. Not allowing Ben Rhodes to testify on the Iran nuclear deal
Remember how treaties are supposed to be ratified by the U.S. Senate, but the Iran nuclear deal was so bad that Obama didn’t bother informing Congress about the details, let alone ask them to do their constitutional duty of ratification? Well, when Congress wanted answers, the White House refused to let the architect of the deal, Ben Rhodes, testify. Rhodes was the failed novelist who became the architect of the Iran deal. They cited “separation of powers” and all that. White House counsel Neil Eggleston said at the time, “The appearance of a senior presidential adviser before Congress threatens the independence and autonomy of the president, as well as his ability to receive candid advice and counsel in the discharge of his constitutional duties.”
2. The Iran ransom payments investigation
The Obama administration was so secretive about their corrupt dealings with Iran, that when they made a shady $400 million payment to Iran in foreign currency under the cover of night in exchange for hostages, they didn’t tell Congress about the money, or the hostage exchange. After the story broke, the Obama administration denied there was any link between the shady money drop and the release of the hostage. However, when Congress wanted answers, they weren’t exactly forthcoming with information. The State Department ignored requests for documents and Attorney General Loretta Lynch refused to answer questions from Congress.
1. Obstructing dozens of Inspectors General investigations
If we’re going to be honest about Obama and how he handled his administration, then it needs to be pointed out that it wasn’t just a few select investigations that were obstructed, it was dozens. Obstruction of justice was in their nature because it was happening all the time, so much in fact that halfway through his second term, 47 of the nation’s 73 inspectors general wrote a letter to Congress accusing the Obama administration of systemic obstruction of justice. This was unprecedented—nothing even close to this had ever happened before in our nation’s history.
Was there a special counsel appointed to investigate? Nope? Was Nancy Pelosi calling for impeachment? Nope. Was there any accountability at all? Nope.
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Matt Margolis is the author of Trumping Obama: How President Trump Saved Us From Barack Obama's Legacy and the bestselling book The Worst President in History: The Legacy of Barack Obama. You can follow Matt on Twitter @MattMargolis
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